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mr_smite1
June 5th, 2006, 12:32 PM
I know it is natural for a boy of my age (15) to get erect at un-convienient times, but i really want to become a naturist. My parents dis-approve of this and they say it is wrong. How can i do what i want? It just feels right and more relaxing to be naked. I would also like to participate in mutual masturbation :) preferably with a girl but i really wouldnt mind a boy :P How can i bring this topic up/get what i want? Thnks for helpin.
Just...Will
June 5th, 2006, 12:45 PM
Try the naturist thing at home when they're not there, or in your room alone when you know you won't get caught. And check the sticky for the mutual masturbation bit.
mr_smite1
June 5th, 2006, 01:16 PM
thanks. But how can i get my parents to understand how i feel about naturism. Also is there age restrictions on naturism and are there any sites that can give me more info?
0=
June 5th, 2006, 01:26 PM
Hell no there's no age restriction. If you wanna be naked, just walk aroudn with loose boxers on if they don't approve of full nudity, and be naked in your room, your body is perfectly legal in your own home. About erections, you'll go through hormonal phases when you get em more or less often, so just have a blanket or something nearby. Do what feels right to you, and damnit I think we might end up starting a nataurist movement on this website, more of us by the week. :D
mr_smite1
June 5th, 2006, 01:43 PM
LOL sounds good, if a fanclub started i would join :P! See i am not ashamed of my erections when they happen but I would just like to know how to find others near me who are interested and do not think it is sauded or dirty (sorry about spelling) or even that it is sexual. Any help?
Aηdy
June 6th, 2006, 12:20 PM
wow chill out, thats three posts in a row, i know your new. but pewople will reply wen they want to.
mr_smite1
June 6th, 2006, 01:13 PM
oh sorry about that, but i am used to quick reply forums, and this isnt rele one of them
Just...Will
June 6th, 2006, 01:25 PM
Yes, please don't double/triple post. As you said, it can sometimes take a while before anyone will answer. I'll go ahead and dispose of the second two posts because they don't have much to say.
Zazu
June 6th, 2006, 01:43 PM
Well I think that the best thing you can do is just ask to have a chat to them, ask them to sit around your kitchen table and have a kind of 'family conference'. When you are talking to them, tell them about how you feel, that you want to be a naturist. They may be a bit shocked and say that your 'wierd' but just make sure they know that it's how you feel.
I hope this helps
0=
June 7th, 2006, 01:41 AM
You shouldn't just say hi mom and dad, I wanna go naked, get them comfortable with you in various states of undress, maybe make it so they see you "on accident" in your room, the more comfortable they are about it before you talk to them, the better.
Melchi0r
June 7th, 2006, 03:36 PM
Naturism is healthy, comfortable, and fun. Forget erections! They're normal and soon will stop happening so often. For the naked thing, go naked whenever you have the chance to not be seen by anyone else. If your family's in the house but you need some nude time, strip off and chill in your room.
Popo and I are naturists, so PM us if you wanna chat.
Peanut Butter
June 7th, 2006, 05:17 PM
I agree ease them into the idea, if they say no then do it in private.
mr_smite1
June 8th, 2006, 09:58 AM
well thanks. Do you know of any colonies in wales? Or any sites that could help me?
rong626
June 10th, 2006, 04:41 AM
Theres one i know but u need to be above 18 to enter
MoveAlong
June 10th, 2006, 03:03 PM
Oh no no no do not post pornographic sites here or anything over eighteen. We can search for those on Google but that's our computer and sharing of sites isn't allowed on VT. [Request removal of link]
MoveAlong
June 10th, 2006, 03:43 PM
Thanks Josh :)
Ezz
June 11th, 2006, 07:51 AM
i'm naturist too...
no, i will not discuss these things with my family, they dont really understand me at all...
mr_smite1
June 12th, 2006, 12:23 PM
that is exactly how i feel question boy. I wonder how i can get around this then?
Ezz
June 12th, 2006, 05:27 PM
i did not let them to know it, and privately did it...
maybe this is not a good idea
but since i guess my parents are mostly not understanding, i will choose not to tell them anything regarding to it...
Sand_Man
June 12th, 2006, 08:57 PM
for now do what everyone else is telling u to do: be naked in privacy and or ware loose boxers
but 3 more years and u can go to a nude beach if u want :O, even thou if ur parents disprove lol, i am NOT sugesting to go agsent ur parents wishes thou.
also when talkint to ur aprents about it, ask why they dont like it
mr_smite1
June 13th, 2006, 12:26 PM
arses. The world needs more quick fixes. Like a nudist beach where only 13-18 year olds can hang out and it is enclosed in a dome...of some sort
0=
June 15th, 2006, 02:49 PM
Uh I didn't see the link that guy had and I'm assuming it was to a naturist resort, thats not porn, but anyway, it's legal to go to them if you're with your parents, but that's not gonna happen, lol.
Anyway, the most you can hope fort right now is them understanding and acceprting your chocie, maybe letting you go swimming naked, which feels incredible. It's possible that they might eventually join you, not too likely, but just ease them into it and make them accept the fact that this is how you wanna live. Hell, mine have stopped pointing out when something's hanging out of my boxers, its a start.
mr_smite1
June 17th, 2006, 03:18 PM
lol, thnks for the advice
TheWizard
June 17th, 2006, 03:25 PM
Hi Mr. Smith. Nice to meet you. :)
:bigsmile:
Rooster
June 22nd, 2006, 01:58 PM
I'm a naturist myself, and there really is no easy way to go about it with "textiles" as us nudists call 'em. You can sleep nude, or do it when you're home alone, so long as you're not bothering anyone unwilling to see. Just do what your heart tells you to do. As for the masturbation thing, firstly you shouldn't associate nudism with sex. Secondly, if you can find a willing partner, go ahead.
mr_smite1
June 23rd, 2006, 09:30 AM
thanks rooster. I dont rele associate nudism with sex, i would just be saying that it would be a shock to see naked people and stuff. Its puberty :(
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