is there something wrong with me?

[janjanTRIP_]

i don't know where to post this..

but k, i've lost best friends and stuff. i dont care.
i havent seen my dad a lot lately. i dont really care.

is there something wrong with me for not caring? im so confuseed:P

[daveywavey]

not at all darlin, you are just blocking out the feelings, eventually they will come up to bite ya, its unhealthy not to recognize pain, when it creeps up on ya it sucks so damn bad, if you recognize and take in what actually happend and deal with it gradually instead of pretenidng like you dont care and you are a heartless person and then it hitting you like a ton of bricks, been there girlfriend.. if you lost there friendship its there lost, you can do better, but dont disregard your god given right as a human to feel compassion empathy and sympothy, im here for ya though if ya wanna pm me


davey

[janjanTRIP_]

i understadn what your saying. thanks lol
but i dont really want to try care.
im scared itll hurt too much

[Aspiringanonymous]

There are many things that I have had the experience of not caring at all, when typically expected to care a great deal about. Turns out that I never did end up caring or discovering so-called repressed feelings; the events in question were just not of importance to me in the same manner which they are to most.

Anything is possible. You of all people should have the clearest idea.

[CuriousDestruction]

there's nothing wrong with you from what i can tell. a lot of times when people become isolated or separated from those whom they love they automatically stop caring. it's a defense mechanism, it stops the loss from hurting so bad. given time you may care again.

[janjanTRIP_]

oicccc, i get it:P

[BeautifulDisaster]

You're blocking out feelings, it's not something that is wrong... it's sort of like a protective state your mind goes in.

When you're ready, you'll feel again...