Exactly how I feel about myself..

[Carlene18]

Well this is my first post and its really hard for me to talk about myself.. I'm 14 years old and weigh 115 pounds which is normal but when I look at myself all i see is fat. Everything about me.. My thighs are huge but I'm in softball season and I'm hoping I'll lose more weight. Lately though, I have not eaten as much. My friends are starting to notice and are wanting to know whats up. All I say is "I'm not hungry I'll eat after lunch." I end up not eating because after school I have softball until 5:30 and after I just want shower and sleep. The guy I've been dating for the past year notices too because he asks me everything I eat everyday.. My friends say that I'm the most beautiful girl and there is no need not to eat but I just don't see that when I look at myself. I've thought about throwing up and not eating at all.. If i keep thinking this way, is it gonna turn into a serious problem for me?

[Katrina]

First of all please don't skip any meals. that's another thing that you have to eat healthy food. Skipping meals can lead to serious health troubles.
If your problem persists please don't hesitate to see a doctor.

[The Joker]

Even, if you were fat, skipping meals doesn't help. Eat healthy, please don't continue to punish your beautiful body.

[2D]

Yeah, no need to starve yourself if you're at 115 without even trying. You have a fast enough metabolism to eat normally without much to worry. Especially because you're in a sport. Just do yourself a favor and take your friends advice.

[Beautiful Obsession]

i no its hard to look in the mirror and think ur fat. But relly, 115 pounds is not fat! skipping meals willnot make you lose weight, and u will put more on because what you are eating, its turnin to fat. if it carries on you should talk to someone.x

[Fiction]

We all have those days where we hate the way we look. We all have those days where we don't feel like eating. It becomes a problem when this is all you think about. Not eating will not help you. If your not getting the nutrients you need your hair, skin and lots of other things will suffer. If you get some kind of infection how will you fight it off? At 115 pounds you are no where near fat. Leave your body as it is it was how you where meant to be and everyone in beautiful in there own way :)

[Carlene18]

It isn't that I don't want to eat, it's just the way i see myself i think.. Thanks for all the advice though (:

[Alonso_Jordane14]

Please, don't do this ok?
Your going to hurt yourself. You can die.
Please......:]

I need a girl to help me with a problem, well a few , but I'm kinda embarassed to talk about it.
If I help you, will you help me, I cant ask my mom or dad, and I just dont know what to do.
Sometimes I feel like its all a dream. Do you ever feel like that too?

If you want, msg me kk?

See ya.:yes:

[Carlene18]

I'll absolutely help you (: with whatever.

[galen]

Go see a nutritionist : ) Don't punish yourself..

[BeautifulDisaster]

It can turn into a serious problem.

Please see someone about this...

[Asylum]

ths is a serious problem... go consult ur doctor... and no ur not fat. i know how u feel. i'm there with u... if u skip meals however, u will gain weight not lose weight.. or gain fat. especially when u start eating again... like i eat 1 meal a day in the summer i tarted eating 2, i went from 114 (not eating) to 117 then 110 (eating) so eating helps. justeat healthy.

look in the mirror and say 3 things good about urself every morign. my pyscologist told me to do this. also laughing at urself naked. give it a try ight work. good luck PM if you need me.

also throwing up is the worst thing u coud do.. addicint.g.. only backfires in the end... not only do you just gain weight back, but you'll begin to lsoe hair, ur teeth will rote, ur throat will always be sore, and ur vital organs will deterierate. horrible death in my opinion... so in the end, u lok far from attractive, sure u can buy wigs, and dentures, and advil, but nothing replaces vital organs.. .

PM me if you need somoen to tlak to

[BeautifulDisaster]

I agree ^^ <3