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jmfr911
February 5th, 2010, 10:57 PM
Was just wondering from any gay/bi out there how they did it, and what people said

Im not thinking about it myself just wandering how you ppl got through it, sounds wierd i know, but its something to talk about :D
Fruit_Tart.
February 6th, 2010, 12:35 AM
well i jus told the friend i thought would keep the secret... then i turned out she was bi too!!! haha... but now people are noticing more and more (which i dont mind at all) and starting to question me if i was gay, but i jus shrugged :P... but i jus started off by telling a trusty friend (btw its a girl).
jmfr911
February 6th, 2010, 12:38 AM
sounds cool, i always joke around with my friends about it
Fruit_Tart.
February 6th, 2010, 12:46 AM
yeah!!! mee too!!! haha... i try to act feminine to see wat they say... most of them jus think im weird. haha... oh well who gives a sh!t. :D
jmfr911
February 6th, 2010, 12:49 AM
lol i always take girls handbags and walk round with it, very funny times
Mysterious Skin
February 6th, 2010, 01:11 AM
tell close friends theyre your friends arnt they
jmfr911
February 6th, 2010, 01:13 AM
thats a good point right there
Kaleidoscope Eyes
February 6th, 2010, 08:04 AM
P101 :arrow: Teen Sexuality
NothingToLose
February 6th, 2010, 10:29 AM
I am bi, I came out last year, and people took it pretty badly, I said it was just a phase and went back on my word. I think that was a good decision to go back on it, because they were obviously not my real friends if they thought that way about me. I hope to come out one day, but probably when I am older and more responsible.
woody92
February 6th, 2010, 10:34 AM
Mine is posted in this thread (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=62049&highlight=Coming+Out+Stories)
JoshXD
February 6th, 2010, 10:17 PM
Everyone at my school used to always say: "What are you, Gay?" and i was like "Yeah". haha... Easiest way to come out ever.
CuriousDestruction
February 6th, 2010, 11:34 PM
getting through it can be a variety of things. hard, easy, simple, complicated, drawn out, short etc. everyone has a different journey. if you want advice on how to come out i'd probably have to know your situation better. but for now i'll just recommend telling close friends and your parents if they are cool.
woody92
February 7th, 2010, 08:31 AM
Everyone at my school used to always say: "What are you, Gay?" and i was like "Yeah". haha... Easiest way to come out ever.

Yea Thats true But you have to have guts to do that in my opinion!! lol