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onitsuka
February 5th, 2010, 10:40 PM
my friend has been bugging to come over and watch porn with me and I know he wants this to move on to something else, what should I do?

BlackBetty
February 5th, 2010, 10:41 PM
What do you want to do???? That is the first questions you should ask YOURSELf.

onitsuka
February 5th, 2010, 10:42 PM
part of me wants to, but im not super sure....have you had this happen to you?

jmfr911
February 5th, 2010, 10:50 PM
I haven't been asked to do this but I have done it with someone before,it just kinda happened, never went any further than that though, my suggestion would just to go for it and see where it goes, you may find that its what you want, if not then just say you wanna take things slow

Mysterious Skin
February 6th, 2010, 12:53 AM
my friend does the same thing if you want to its up to u

obknobe
February 6th, 2010, 01:57 AM
Try it. You might like it.

onitsuka
February 6th, 2010, 08:16 AM
i did it last night and it was great!

jmfr911
February 6th, 2010, 09:29 AM
wow good for you man, glad you thought it was good, so you thinking of taking that further or no?

onitsuka
February 6th, 2010, 09:41 AM
[No requesting of sharing stories. -Chequ3r]

onitsuka
February 6th, 2010, 09:50 AM
whoops! sorry mods!

onitsuka
February 6th, 2010, 07:04 PM
idk probably not, (yes or no or PM) have you gone further with a friend?

kenshin8106
February 6th, 2010, 07:05 PM
try and it and see how you feel

itsthatkid
February 6th, 2010, 09:23 PM
If he asked u then you are lucky. I personaly would do it but u need to ask yourself do u want to.

Juan Valdez
February 6th, 2010, 09:30 PM
I think he just want to jerk off with you. You decide if you want to or not.

TheFame
February 6th, 2010, 10:31 PM
Creeper 0_o

No im kidding, if you wanna go masturbate with him then the door is open

CuriousDestruction
February 6th, 2010, 11:14 PM
if you feel comfortable with it and want to do it go ahead. if you are unsure or worried he may want to do something further then feel free to refuse.

Erick
February 6th, 2010, 11:21 PM
Try it, you will never know if you like it if you never try.

Michael92
February 13th, 2010, 09:58 PM
if you're comfortable watching porn with him then do that but if you think it will lead to anything further you need to assess how you feel about that and make sure that if you don't feel comfortable you're ok with saying no and don't feel pressured into it

you also need to think about how you'll feel next time you see him if something does happen. are you going to be ok with that cause if it makes you uncomfortable after the fact it might wreck your freindship

gone
February 13th, 2010, 10:35 PM
If it were me I know what I would do

:P

musicbyeric15
February 13th, 2010, 10:42 PM
if i were you i'd do it. but its ur choice

hiker1992
February 13th, 2010, 11:21 PM
If you're at all uncomfortable with it, don't do it. If you're curious and would like to see where it goes, by all means, go for it. You should make sure that you're fully aware of what you'd be getting into, though, and use your intuition when thinking about how it'll effect your guys' friendship.

james625
February 15th, 2010, 04:17 AM
It all depends on what you want.

Nelson
February 15th, 2010, 06:46 AM
My advice, try it, but be careful, if someone finds out, it can spread through your school and could get you bashed

Freshprince
February 15th, 2010, 11:19 AM
^agreed its your choice

raymond
February 15th, 2010, 11:44 AM
If he is a real good long time friend I would watch the porn but clam up. I would not consider any sex with a friend if I knew them for a long time. However, I would do it with a nice looking guy who is friendly. I am gay-bi? myself and am always looking for some sex fun with a guy my age.

Boroboi
February 16th, 2010, 06:08 PM
Ive done and it feels good n i do now n again :)

Giles
February 16th, 2010, 06:23 PM
It all depends upon if you really want it to lead to anything more. If you're comfortable both watching porn and the masturbation together (I'm guessing that's what you're implying) then go and do it.

Just beware that it can ruin friendships and create allot of tension between you. Not to mention the possible bad atmosphere that will linger for a long time if something goes wrong.

francisco
February 16th, 2010, 07:47 PM
If it was me I wuld do it but that's jus me u decide wat u want to do "dnt knock it until you try it"

Funny Joe
March 18th, 2010, 06:20 AM
My advice, try it, but be careful, if someone finds out, it can spread through your school and could get you bashed

that

coopie.mac94
March 18th, 2010, 08:10 AM
if u want it to go further, go ahead. if not just say no.

Scarface
March 18th, 2010, 08:31 AM
I'm glad you did it man it's a good experience and I'm glad everything worked out for you:)

SimplyTom
March 18th, 2010, 09:08 AM
well its up to u. Ur body u choose

Caaaaam
March 18th, 2010, 07:21 PM
I've had this happen to me. but ..the real reason why I didn't want to ..was ..because he is super ugly, :/. & I can't force myself to be attracted to someone. SO. I had to tell him straight up, & he stopped asking, obviously.

CarnivorousBat
March 18th, 2010, 07:34 PM
if you dont want to do anything with him dont go

i know i would go ;)

Hollywood
March 18th, 2010, 08:24 PM
its up to u, but beware, theres always a risk of losing ur friend

ive always wanted to do it with my bf, but i wont risk it

sophomore
March 18th, 2010, 08:29 PM
do what ever you feel comfortable doing. thats really all it come down to

jmanson2
March 18th, 2010, 08:30 PM
just do it it's no big thing

Drake011
March 18th, 2010, 09:42 PM
you should just go for it, and see what happens, you never know till you try..

Omgthatsme
March 18th, 2010, 09:46 PM
I would go and watch but take it slow.

Aspiringanonymous
March 18th, 2010, 09:51 PM
This thread is more than a month old. Please don't bump old threads.. :locked: