Help?

[Marcie]

Recently I have found my self falling for this one girl, and well I really like her. A couple weeks ago I told her I liked her, and she said she did too. (though I already knew)
I Kinda want to start dating, however, at the same time I don't want to. I'd like to date because, well, truthfully I don't really know. I've never dated anyone before and I kinda want to know what it's like.. lol
I don't want to for the reason that I don't want to lose her friendship, and I'm afraid that if I started to date her, then we would eventually breakup and consequently run the risk of losing her as a friend.

I don't really know what to do in this situation.. I've never actually had someone I like like me back. lol
I am polling for some advice, can someone give me a hand working this out.

P.S. Despite the fact that my screen name is 'Marcie' I'm a guy

[Aspiringanonymous]

Relax and follow your intuition. I personally believe that in general, end results of experiences are completely irrelevant - the experience, and the present in which it exists only, is what matters. The only thing that is always certain is change - dynamics will undergo change at some point, and so will inner states, for better or for worse, regardless of your decision at this fork in the road.

Personally, I'm always up for a cause to have some harmless and casual fun while exploring another unknown for the simple sake of seeing what it's like. While you're still young and serious commitment is far from a pressing concern; why not?

[Eclipse]

Maya couldn't have said it better.

[Sugaree]

There's no harm in trying right? Just make sure you treat her like you normally treat her. Don't get too overbearing or worry about the friendship. I have a few friends who liked each other, got into a relationship, and maintained them. One of those relationships has been going on for two years and they couldn't be happier. Of course, it's safe to know that this isn't the case for all friendships that turn into relationships.

If you are going to take her out, just be a gentleman. Open doors for her, pay for the dinner or movie, the works. No harm comes when you show her that. Best of luck to you.

[Marcie]

Thanks guys for your input.