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penguin13
February 5th, 2010, 04:34 PM
I need some advice please - I live in Ireland and I'm going out with a guy who lives in New York (I'm gay btw:whoops:). Anyway so I only go over there every month or so for a scolarship thing. But I find it really hard while I'm not there. I love him to bits and wouldn't be without him for a moment:wub::wub:. It's been seven months and I've never had a second thought. But the distance is the hardest thing - we msn, call and text constantly but it's still not the same.
Is there any advice people have who may have been in a situation like this.
Sage
February 5th, 2010, 06:41 PM
One of you should move. Of course, this is easier said than done.
mrmcdonaldduck
February 6th, 2010, 06:39 AM
One of you should move. Of course, this is easier said than done.
as tim said this is the best thing, but maybe wait and see if you can get some sort of a job in NY, so that you have to move
Mr. Smithers
February 6th, 2010, 06:45 AM
Relationship might not work out I'm afraid. Long distance relationships require lots of time and patience. Which you might not have a lot of. You can always remain friends with him, but I would focus on my scholarship if anything. My education is a lot more important than Prince Charming. You will find another person, don't worry.
penguin13
February 6th, 2010, 11:45 AM
I really can't move as I'm 16
ErykaInspire.
February 6th, 2010, 03:33 PM
Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
You're saying you can't be without him, am I correct? Then I believe you'll get through this obstacle and have a very successful relationship.
Don't let your mind change your heart.
I'm glad you're happy, dear(:
woody92
February 6th, 2010, 04:08 PM
Think yourself luck, atleast you get to see your BF! I Dont! My BF lives in Oklahoma and I love him to peices. I stay strong and I will meet Drew one day! I WILL!!!!
GOOD LUCK!!
Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
You're saying you can't be without him, am I correct? Then I believe you'll get through this obstacle and have a very successful relationship.
Don't let your mind change your heart.
I'm glad you're happy, dear(:
100% respect! REP+
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