Is it real?

[NothingToLose]

I am 14 years old, and have science with a boy. He used to smack my bum and make jokes alot, and I would just turn around, smile, and let it slide by. But recently he has been coming up behind me and massaging my arse, he sometimes puts his hand down my trousers and once or twice has gone up my shirt. My friends in that class have told me to just stay away from him, but how can I tell them I like it? And just want him to kiss my neck whilst he does it? I don't know whether he does it to show off, or because he just wants someone to grop, or he actually likes me. Please someone tell me what to do!

[ILOVEYOU]

i know these kind of boys.. haha. . . if you let him closer, he will go for sex, not what you want, i would suggest you to just wait, and see if he does it himself.. if not, be sure that he's just having fun with you and he's not serious about what hes doing. talk to him if you want, ask him what he wants.. works i think. Good Luck

[NothingToLose]

i know these kind of boys.. haha. . . if you let him closer, he will go for sex, not what you want, i would suggest you to just wait, and see if he does it himself.. if not, be sure that he's just having fun with you and he's not serious about what hes doing. talk to him if you want, ask him what he wants.. works i think. Good Luck

Thankyou for your advice. I may talk to him and ask him why he does it, I hope he understands I let him do it because I enjoy it, not because I have no other choice! x

[ILOVEYOU]

np, i hope you'll Succeed, :) Good luck lilli

[2D]

Kick him in the testicles. Dead serious.

Or fuck him.

[NothingToLose]

No fucking allowed, I am saving myself, I sund all angelic, well I ain't. Thanks for the kind words again.

[2D]

No fucking allowed

Best of luck with that.

[dmeek7]

i say that you just confont him.tell him that all this playing around is confusing you and you want him to tell you the reason he is doing it all.. and i wish girls would tell me when they like me......so a good idea would to tell him how you feel, and tell him how you like the way hes touching you, and ask him if he likes you....hope i helped!!

[Baudelaire]

Kick him in the testicles. Dead serious.

Or fuck him.

Thats a little harsh isnt it? Ok yeah its creepy but I don't think it deserves that.

Although physical warning may be needed if this continues, his testicles dont seem like a very fair target, anyway just ask him what his problem is.

[Kapitan Kokenbalz]

No fucking allowed, I am saving myself, I sund all angelic, well I ain't. Thanks for the kind words again.

No shit.

Sounds to me like you're being his play thing. Carry on.

[danielleinthesky]

well considering the fact that you're 14, he must be super horny. o.0 just stay away from him.. yeah you're hormones are all like "oooo" but if you pursue it it'll bite you in the ass. you're too young to be doing that stuff.. and i sound all old but im only 16 and im just talking from experience! he's not the kind of guy you want around.

[Fruit_Tart.]

i think that you should like hold off for awhile... then one day catch him off guard and tell him to smack you harder!!! haha... i was jus thinking that it would be purdy funny. :D

[Quick_Sylver]

Kick him in the testicles. Dead serious.

Or fuck him.

That ^^


It may feel nice and everything, but its sexual harassment. I suggest you tell him to back off and stay away, even to the extent of asking the teacher to move you away from him. That's wrong hun, and if he thinks he can get away with doing this to you, think about the next girl he does it to, and who knows, maybe even worse things. Get away from him, put him in the hospital, let him continue, its your choice, but think it through.

[2D]

I'm harsh with guys overstepping their boundaries because my ex was raped twice by guys who we're only doing what he is dong to you. One thing led to another and she got the short end of the stick. If I we're you I would say fuck off before he thinks he owns you. Yes, I said owns. That's how guys who have no respect for women think.

Cheers

[nick]

Kick him in the testicles. Dead serious.

Or fuck him.
Yeah, my immediate answer was knee him in the bollucks.

His behaviour is innapropriate and a form of abuse. He keeps doing it because you are letting him get away with it, and to be honest that probably makes him think you are "cheap" or "easy". So either have a relationship with the guy and let him touch whatever you like, or put a stop to it.

[NothingToLose]

Thankyou everyone for your great advice. I am going to confront him about it, and if he says he 'owns' me or I am his play thing I WILL kick him in the balls.

[ErykaInspire.]

Seriously, hun, I know guys like that. I've been in that situation when I was younger.
That's all he wants is a little action.
I dated the guy that did it to me for 3 days and he ended up cheating on me in that short amount of time. It's NOT worth expostulating yourself. Although you're not letting him see you nude or anything, you're still putting yourself out there. You're going to get yourself a bad reputation and get seriously hurt in the process.
You have to have more respect for yourself than that.. You're young. Don't get involved in touchy-feely stuff, trust me, It isn't a good start to your high school life.
Tell him to lay off. If you like him, fine, get to know him, but he sounds like a player/user to me.
If nothing else, guard your heart.

[NothingToLose]

Guard your Heart. I like that.

[2D]

Your heart is the least of your worries.

You're gonna get reamed by this guy one way or another and then you'll be stuck on the side of the road wondering what happened because you thought he loved you. Don't say I didn't warn you.