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Baudelaire
February 4th, 2010, 05:05 PM
Um, well I have a question....

I've noticed, you can be really really good friends with a girl but she still won't like you that way....

So are boys the same way too? I like this one boy and I want to ask him/ try something, but the last thing I need is a gay rumor about me, the boy and I are decent friends....this weekend we might go sledding :whoops: and I might ask him about a sleepover/stuff while we're there. So yeah, I really want to sleep over at his house, how would I know if he's interested?

dantheman5000
February 4th, 2010, 05:34 PM
well if your getting along pretty good that day he could put off a hey i wish we could spend more time wth you instead of leaving. i know ive had this feeling before. what kind of "things" do you want to do? pm me plyz.

CuriousDestruction
February 4th, 2010, 11:11 PM
if you don't know that he likes you then you really have 2 choices. wait to get to know him better and see if he seems to be attracted to you. or take a leap of chance and ask him. i know you are scared of a gay rumor but if you actually want to go somewhere with this you may have to deal with it. PM me if you wanna talk.

emt.Cam
February 4th, 2010, 11:35 PM
It's hard to say if he likes you, as you seem to be friends who enjoy common interests. It's going to take a big jump to find out if he "likes" you too. If you don't want a gay rumor to spread, I'd recommend you take things slow. I recommend you get to know him more, talk about girls and check his responses, use some social engineering, you may find the answer you're looking for without saying, "hey, want to kiss" or something that would alarm him and scare him off. If you need, I'm here to talk to.

Ripplemagne
February 4th, 2010, 11:56 PM
Read The Laddery Theory. (http://www.laddertheory.com)

2D
February 5th, 2010, 12:59 AM
Ripp, you have changed my world.

Ripplemagne
February 5th, 2010, 01:08 AM
It's what I do.