Confuzzled

[Poette]

I've never ever been attracted to girls ever. But I met this one girl who told me she was a lesbian and as we got closer, I started to develop feelings for her. It was so scary and I didn't want to tell her and I didn't even want to believe it, but I was actually falling for her. Well today she kissed me and it went a bit further than a kiss, and I had to stop myself. She told me that she really liked me, and I couldn't say anything back. I've always been attracted to guys, but there is just something about this girl, she gives me butterflies. I think I may love her, but does this mean I'm lesbian?

[Obscene Eyedeas]

No sweetie. it means your either curious or bi. a few months ago i started to get to know this girl she is so amazing and ya im scared of kissing her because shes a girl and i never thought i was bi but i am. and im totaly in love wit her. her touch sends electricity through me and i think of her 24/7 im scared but i know i love her

[JessicaUK]

I think I may be more attracted to girls too but I've not done anything yet. As I'm only 14 I hope I don't get labelled or anything. I really don't know yet I'm too young.

[CuriousDestruction]

this just means you are curious about girls. you sound like you really like this girl but it doesn't make you a lesbian. hormones in teenagers go crazy and make us question our sexual preferences. it's possible you are lesbian. it's possible you are bi. it's possible you are straight and this is just a phase. it's possible you are secretly attracted to rhinos. (just kidding). for right now i think you should just go where your heart takes you and don't try to label yourself just yet.

[emt.Cam]

Aww hun, don't be alarmed. It seems like you're curious and there's nothing wrong with that. Girls have amazing qualities, and you may find you are more attracted to female qualities more than males. I can't answer if you're lesbian, bisexual, or straight as only you can answer this. This girl just may give you the feeling a guy has never given you before and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that, it's what makes you happy. Do what your heart tells you. My opinion? Continue to be friends with her, share some common interests with each other and see what's in store for you two. You may find that this girl fulfills your happiness more than a guy has and if you find yourself falling for her more, be with her. In the end, it's your happiness above everything.