trying to look the part!

[aussie_chub]

hi im a 16 yo gay guy and i get god responses but from girls i always get cracked o to and stuff like that but i dont get anything from ay guys because they all think im straight. i wanted to know if there is any way i can look act and show certain characteristics or lead people to believe that im gay without blaitently saying it.by the way thanks to anyone who gives me a good answer ill ^your rep ;)

[Ripplemagne]

Pierce your right ear, groom yourself well, use the handkerchief code (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Handkerchief_code) and maybe go to a gay club/group to associate yourself with other gays. Please don't wear the rainbow flag though. I hate people who do that.

[aussie_chub]

I have both my ears pierced and i style my hair listen to all the chick music and groom myself

[Ripplemagne]

Then just use the handkerchief code. I wouldn't suggest modifying your appearance or personality for the sake of your sexuality because your sexuality will be you instead of you being your sexuality.

Just let it all come to you. Are you really in need of a relationship at 16 anyway?

[aussie_chub]

well i think i am ready for it ive contemplated it for quite some time and i think to myself if i feel a certain way about i then i should pursue it.

[Ripplemagne]

It's your choice, but I've learned that relationships during the Identity v. Role Confusion phase has a tendency to stunt the individuals growth.

[aussie_chub]

you may be correct ill see where it takes me thanks
and if anyone else has advice im gld to hear it