HElp me!

[Mysterious Skin]

I am gay and have been for 2 years and so far no-one knows but everyone has been questioning me about my sexuality and i dont want my family to find out yet Any advice?

[aussie_chub]

deny everything with this comment "what r u gay,trying to hit on me or something" then they kid andjoke or the group leads to them as not to question u further

[nick]

Its hard to comment without knowing more about your situation and knowing who's been questioning your sexuality and why? My feeling is that its best not to lie as that just complicates things and makes it harder when you do feel ready to come out. Of course you can answer "none of your business" but I guess people would take that almost the same as saying you were gay. If there are things about you, about your personality or the way that you act, that makes people guess that you are gay then maybe its silly to try to hide it. Drop me a pm if you want to talk about it more.

[CuriousDestruction]

i agree with nick. if you really don't want people to find out for sure don't say anything to anyone, deny being gay, and don't go out with any guys for awhile. that's a temporary solution but it'll do. but i always encourage kids to come out, especially to their parents. your parents, im guessing, love you and will accept you. and if your friends are really your friends they will accept you as well. PM me if you wanna talk more about it.

[emt.Cam]

If you don't want people to find out, then you will need to deny it. Even though I'm straight, you need to be true to yourself. I hope your family would accept you being gay and love/care about you regardless. I've seen that a lot of people have came out on these forums and claim it's a huge weight off their shoulders. Be true to yourself and do what you want.