Getting a bit desperate

[here2help]

Get this I'm 16 and a half havn't had a gf in nearlly two years and still havn't had my first kiss. I'm not a nerd or nothing it's just I'm good friends with all the girls I know, even when I like someone I'm not good friends with I try getting close to them and then we become good friends and nothing more. Well I start tafe soon doing a nursing course and from what I've heard the close is mostly girls with one or two boys, I'm hoping I might find someone I might like. Well my questions are what's makes a girl like you as a bf rather than just good friends? And any1 got any ideas on how to pick up some girls, if that's the right term??

[andyy]

go with flow just strike conversation and talk about cwhat she leikes

[Giles]

Find out what she likes and hammer that topic. Talk of nothing else until she mentions it, that way you can't talk about anything she hates because she's starting the conversation.

[woody92]

Let her start the conversation.
Edit, never mind I've just realised that you've posted the exact same question in another thread.
Yes I agree! I am friends with more girls than guys because I find it easier to talk to girls more than guys! (I dont want to scare you, but I am also gay and I beleive that this is also a reason for me being closer to girls than guys, its weird I know, but i think that gay guys can relate more with girls because in some ways the gay guys take more care in apperance than straight guys, this only my opinion!) I also think that to make a girl "like" you to be a BF I think that you should ask a friend that you really like (I mean a friend your REALLY close to and you always think about them) and you should ask them if they want to go out with you. I dont this, (when I thought I was BI) and I got a GF and I asked her on top of a mountain in the middle of Spain on a Friday night when we (SHE) was drunk! But we were together for 8 months.

so you cna ask a friend you really like out, or just wait for one to ask you (BUT you could be waiting a long time because in my experience I have foun that the girl waits to be asked out by a guy! AND they will wait not only a few weeks to be asked out but a few MONTHS too!)

GOOD LUCK!

[Zazu]

Duplicate threads merged and also move from P101 > R&D

[here2help]

Thanks guys is there anyway of me changing the title to something more suitable and so more people will read it??

[Inconvenience]

u know what, there's no need to talk about what they want and about what they're interested in. this's gonna bore u one day, and it will come out that u have drawn yourself to ur GF who u really aren't. like u are sombody else, and she doesn't know u. so just be who u are ;)

now about banging them :> Girls use to pick tough ones u know, like they like strong ones, a real man. so just be it. show them all ur manish charachter. don't be too pleased, sometimes u even need to be bad ass, coz they like it too. so be diverse. don't give away all of ur secrets with them, like the stuff u'd tell to only ur closest friend. and one more thing, sometimes u just need to ignore them (pretending not to notice them), this is what drives them crazy ;)

[Ripplemagne]

Kick it. (http://ripplemagne.weebly.com/2/post/2009/06/ripplemagnes-guide-to-asking-her-out.html)

[Strength]

you havent got it bad at all man. im 17 and only got my first girlfriend and kiss at 17.

[LunacyFringe]

If you like a particular friend just ask her if she wants to hangout together without your other friends around. If she doesn't realise that you like her the first time you 'hangout' then keep doing it until she does. Once she realises you like her she will either be enthusiastic to the prospect of going out with you or she can tell you lightly that she doesn't feel the same way, without harming your friendship.