Am I Gay?

[Jswylie1096]

Okay, I'm really close with my friend and we have been friends
practically forever. But Now I'm starting to Im starting to have
dreams and fantasies about him and me y'know..... We have
jerked off together and I told him and he said he been thinking
the same things... Does this make us gay?

[emt.Cam]

It's hard to determine. Does a threesome (2 guys and 1 girl) make the guys gay, not necessarily. You need to ask yourself if you are attracted to another male, if you can see yourself being in a relationship with another male, if you have feelings for another male, etc. I'm not going to base a "stamp" on you based on what you've told me. Dreams and fantasies are kind of different if you ask me. Dreams are uncontrollable to an extent, a fantasy is something YOU want to have happen, in most cases. Just remember, there's nothing wrong if you are gay or bi, it's what makes you happy. If you have more questions, don't be afraid to drop me a PM.

[nick]

Jason, only you can know how you feel. If you feel as if you would like to date him, like to have him as a boyfriend rather than just a friend, then yes you could be gay. If its not that but you just want to sort of play around a bit then maybe not. To be honest at 13 you dont need to rush to give yourself a label, just keep relaxed, keep an open mind, go with the flow of what feels right for you and see how things pan out.

[CuriousDestruction]

you aren't necessarily gay. when we are young our hormones make us want to experiment with sex and life. you also often are curious about your sexual attractions. it's perfectly normal. you won't know if you are gay most likely till you are older.

[Botchy]

Do you love him or just have dreams about him?, if you just have dreams about "doing things" with him then its prob your just curios

[Contra]

If those feelings are only sexual, then it can be just curiosity.
But if you do feel something emotional and want to have a serious relationship with him, that may be a sign. But that is up to you to find out. Look deep in your heart and find out the lines with which you want to guide your relationship.

[manlymadness]

Well you could be just kiss and you will know