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Mr. Smithers
February 2nd, 2010, 03:43 PM
People here have helped me with a lot of problems that I've had. My friend has, well it's not really a problem, I just want your opinion on it, and what should he do, just to get a second opinion or something.

Alright, so I met this friend while in College. He was really interesting so I decided to becoming friends with him. Now, he lives with his older brother, and his Uncle. Both his parents has passed away. I went to go sleepover one time, and his older brother is very homophobic. Me and my friend are both Gay and he always says homophobic remarks to both of us. So I'm having a hard time believing what he told me next.

So two days ago, he called me, and asked to meet up with him. He then told me that he and his older brother kissed. I was so shocked and grossed out to hear that. I thought his older brother was straight. He then told me,that his brother told him to keep it a secret, but he knew I wouldn't tell anybody. I didn't tell him that it was gross, just that it wasn't right for him to do that.

I haven't been able to get in touch with him after that, but I just want to know what should I do,or he do? I just know that what he is doing isn't right.

Thanks again.

Obscene Eyedeas
February 2nd, 2010, 03:59 PM
You should keep trying to get in contact with him you have done nothing wrong only point out the incest of the situation. at the end of the day all the qs you asked can be answered by this its his decision. incest is wrong and he knows this and the reason he may not be talking to you is because he is ashamed.

Mr. Smithers
February 2nd, 2010, 10:05 PM
Yes. My car broke down couple weeks ago, so I been taking the bus. Me and my friend take the same bus to school, and he didn't even sit by me, something is wrong with him.

Fusion
February 3rd, 2010, 05:45 AM
I wouldn't bring up that subject anymore with him personally, I know that maybe hard for you, as its incest and illegal, but its probably best for your relationship with him.

Ripplemagne
February 3rd, 2010, 06:04 AM
That's pretty hilarious.

honeybear
February 3rd, 2010, 10:03 PM
while it is wrong what they did I would try to be his friend still and not bring it up at all unless he does first....

funek1
February 3rd, 2010, 10:19 PM
keep talking to him

Mr. Smithers
February 3rd, 2010, 11:18 PM
That's pretty hilarious.

I don't find anything funny about this. We all have our own opinions, and I respect yours, but I just don't find this situation "hilarious".

Ripplemagne
February 3rd, 2010, 11:18 PM
When you get older and look back on it, you will.

Triceratops
April 23rd, 2010, 08:07 AM
Do not bump old threads. :locked: