My girlfriend might break up with me... Weee...

[Hatsune Miku]

I don't know why. She said she was upset with me. I tried to talk to her but she said she didn't want to talk to me. I asked her if we were okay, but she said "I don't know" so I told her, "okay, well think about it okay? I love you, goodnight." I really hope she doesn't break up with me. She didn't even tell me why. Its been 10 months...

[emt.Cam]

If you've already tried talking to her, then give her time. The worst thing you want to do is pester her and get her more upset with you. When she is ready to talk, she'll come to you. Hopefully she comes and talks with you and tell you what's bothering her. Listen to her, take in what she says. Don't just see it from your point of view, try to be in her shoes as well. I've been in a relationship for 1 year and going on 4 months. No relationship is "smooth" there's always the tough times, whether it be an argument, disagreement, whatever it may be; be there for her. I'm sure you'll be fine. Sorry if I'm kinda rambling, it's late and I'm tired. If you have any more questions I'll try to answer them better... PM me if you need. Keep that head up kid.

[2D]

I'll give you this before you learn it the hard way.

The more you ignore a girl the more she wants to talk/be with you.

Seen it many times, hear it many times, happened first person a few times. Give her some space and I bet she'll come around.

[emt.Cam]

I'll give you this before you learn it the hard way.

The more you ignore a girl the more she wants to talk/be with you.

Seen it many times, hear it many times, happened first person a few times. Give her some space and I bet she'll come around.
That true in many cases, yes. Let her come to you when she is ready.

[woody92]

Agreed with all the above! Us guy (no offence to anyone) We want things to be sorted out ASAP (As Soon As Possible), however a girl doesnt they would rather take their time, be slow, and basicly make you wait as much as possible! She is upset with you, so you have to play by her rules (wait for her to come to you) if you were upset with her she would normaly (In my experiences) come to you faster But its not ALWAYS like this!

[Hatsune Miku]

Thanks guys. She hasn't said anything to me yet, but im patient. If she decides she wants to break up, then im okay with that ( Not okay like I don't care, Okay like... you know what I mean right? ). You can't force someone to stay with you. All I want is for her to be happy, so if this is what she wants ill learn to accept it.

[woody92]

Thanks guys. She hasn't said anything to me yet, but im patient. If she decides she wants to break up, then im okay with that ( Not okay like I don't care, Okay like... you know what I mean right? ). You can't force someone to stay with you. All I want is for her to be happy, so if this is what she wants ill learn to accept it.


Yes you mean "okay" as in you will have to accept it so that she can/will be happy. Right?

[Hatsune Miku]

Yes you mean "okay" as in you will have to accept it so that she can/will be happy. Right?

Yes...

She broke up with me...
Everything, thrown away...
Everything was great...

I don't know what to do... She sounded like she didn't even care

[woody92]

Yes...

She broke up with me...
Everything, thrown away...
Everything was great...

I don't know what to do... She sounded like she didn't even care

Sorry to hear that! If you need anything my atention is yours!

[Hatsune Miku]

Thanks... I called her and talked to her and she was all happy and I asked her if she hated me and she said kinda. Then I asked if we could still be friends and she said yeah. Now I call her and she says "Go away" What the hell is she trying to do to me. Now I feel worse then before

[thedudeman]

screw that girl sounds like a twat
she prolly found another dude and tried to make you feel bad so she could break up

i have problems with this, i cant handle it thats why i stay outta relationships, id prolly bury her six feet deep if i was in yur situation

[Hatsune Miku]

Shes not a twat, and shes not with another guy, thats a fact.
It'll be fine though. I gotta stop beating myself up about this.

[woody92]

Shes not a twat, and shes not with another guy, thats a fact.
It'll be fine though. I gotta stop beating myself up about this.

GOOD for YOU! If you need to chat or anything you cam PM me or IM me anytime! Good Luck for the future!! REP+

[zacset]

I'm sorry to hear what she did to you - I admire your positive outlook on the whole thing though, it's something I wish I had :)

[Hatsune Miku]

I'm sorry to hear what she did to you - I admire your positive outlook on the whole thing though, it's something I wish I had :)

Thanks. I mean of course im still heart broken and I think about her all the time. But beating myself up about this is going to make things worse. I just gotta face the fact. Who knows, maybe we can still be friends.