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Joshrofl
January 31st, 2010, 06:18 PM
There is this girl, i really like her and flirt with her a lot. She doesn't really seem to mind... we met at the beginning of this year at first we hated each other but after about a week we started talking more and more, we are pretty good friends now, We make a lot of jokes, she usually laughs at all the jokes I say, but she is usually a fun person and laughs at jokes most people say.. We have quite a bit in common. I'm pretty confident about her being single.

So my Question is if it sounds like she would say Yes if i asked her out... And i want to know how to overcome the Nervousness.

Aman21
January 31st, 2010, 06:26 PM
So yall hang out a lot.That could mean 1 of 2 things.Youve traveled into the friends zone or she wants to go out with her.just dnt ruine the friendship.About the nervousness just let it come to you if you like alot you will just say forget it and ask her when you feel like it

Obscene Eyedeas
January 31st, 2010, 06:29 PM
You should think about it deeply. maybe she does like you but the chances are equal to that of her maybe not liking you. are you willing to take that risk?

DayBreakArt
February 1st, 2010, 10:16 AM
You should think about it. If you ask her, both answers will effect your friendship. If she's says yes then you break up it will probably effect it. If she says no it will effect it. If you really like her and are prepared to take both risks then I'd say go for it because love is a beautiful thing.

nick
February 1st, 2010, 10:59 AM
Nobody can tell you in advance how she is going to answer, but what I would say is that sometimes its a case of "no risk, no gain". If you dont ask her out is that going to nag away at you, always wondering what might have happened?

2D
February 1st, 2010, 11:18 AM
If you don't ask the answer is always no. Why not try your luck?

emt.Cam
February 1st, 2010, 12:35 PM
I agree with most of the answers. You do need to consider the the "consequences" as you will, of your decision. You might want to wait longer and see if you get any hints or signs to help you out. If you do, it may make your friendship awkward, keep that in mind. There's no need to rush anything. Like the others have said, you'll never know unless you ask, just be yourself around her. Nervousness is natural around the opposite sex and those that you may like more than others. Good luck Josh.