Im not sure of anything anymore...

[DarkWingedAngel]

ok im really confused
I have known for some time that im not happy with my body, I don't want boobs, I think I would be alot happier if I was born a guy.
Yes, im a Female to Male Transsesual.
anyways
I have come out to 2 people
one her name is amanda, i just told her yesterday, things seem ok after we talked.
Now the other person I dated and I consider that we are still dating.
Now one problem, im attracted girls, I always have been and always will be but theres a big twist, she came out too, so now im just thinking 2 straight FtM Trans(fail on my part i like girls) altho I love him, with a passion, I would even not get a sex change for him.
anyways not my point


thing i really came to ask is well i love him, i like girls, i wanna spend my life with a girl not a guy, but i would totally spend my life with him.
What am I straight, gay, bi?


this is just really confusing.

[ShatteredWings]

1) Don't give up on any chance at being happy for one guy... *cough* And yes i'm serious.
2) Uh... How can you be gay if you like girls? Just stating the obvious here

[DarkWingedAngel]

well im just thinking things through

[CuriousDestruction]

wow, well, i have to say that is confusing. lemme see if i can simplify this. you are still biologically female but you want to be a guy. your girlfriend is also transexual and you totally love her. well, i think you should do what your heart tells you to. if you truly are willing to hold off on getting the operation in order to be with this girl/guy, then you should. just know that it may be hard to ignore your own desires to be a guy. to tell you the truth, i think it is between you and your girlfriend to decide. PM me if you want to talk.

[ShatteredWings]

boyfriend, him
Kthx. I mean c'mon you didn't ever know either of us as girls it's not that hard.
(i'll stop being a bitch)

[The Batman]

Why should a label matter? Just be yourself that's all that counts.

[StraightAcE]

are u a boy or a girl?

[The Joker]

^Read the original post and you'd find out for yourself. :rolleyes:

[Giles]

^Read the original post and you'd find out for yourself. :rolleyes:
Lol

I would say that you are probably Bi. I don't know you so I couldn't possibly say.

[KenFisher]

I'm confused. You planning for another sex change, or you had one already? You're more like bi, and you want to be/are/identify yourself as a guy. Hum, yea, my bet is, you're still a girl right now, but you want to be a guy and you want to be with her as a guy, but she's not straight. You also like a guy, that you like and you could stay as a girl for him? I'm wrong, right? ;) I guess I'd see what happens. Figure out what you want to be and what you want. And, yea, you're prob bi. That's my bet.

[Obscene Eyedeas]

I think your bi hunny. and what you really need to do is to take a deep breath and look at yourself and forget about everyone else! this is you, this is your life, your decision. its realy what wil make you happy is what you gotta think about. forget about what will make others happy and just do what wil make you happy. and if the person you love wil feel differently about you because of that decision. then they dnt realy love u. dnt give up on ur happiness for anyone.

you have the rest of your life to find love hun. and ur bi so ull have a huge chance of finding someone you love who will also love u back no matter what decision u make

[ackmedsgirl666]

desi,
theres nothing to worry about
i know lots of people with the same experiences that u are going through
alot of people don't fully find out their true identity until they are adults( i have a friend who still thinks they are gay but dates girls too
whatever you decide is your choice. sexuality can be very hard to come to but i'm sure that one of these days you will succeed and be happy with yourself!