Awkward situation

[lee]

So here is the dealio:

There is this guy (a junior) who goes to my temple and school. He's really awesome and I would love to date. He seems to be attracted to me as well. I've asked him out several times. The problem? I'm best friends with his little sister and the Rabbi's daughter. Not a problem for me, for him. He says it's too awkward to date me. I'm so fustrated. Is there anything I could do to convince him it would be okay? I've dated guys from my temple before, it wasn't a problem for them.

[LIsailer19]

i dont understand why it would be akward, ive seen couples where one person is best friends with the other person's sister/brother. anyway you might want to try asking him out again, and tell him that there is no reason why your friendship with his sister should get in the way of your having a relationship. just be careful because if he thinks your asking too much, it might screw things up.... also, how do you know he's attracted to you? coming from a guy's point of view, if i like a girl, and she asked me out, i wouldnt turn her down. you're prob not going to want to hear this but he might not be attracted to you bc if he was he prob wouldnt have said no.

anyway hope i helped and good luck!:)

[Hot Fudge]

I dont like to say it but shes probably right, sure ask once more and say to him ''i dont think the reason you gave is strong enough and that we could work it out but if its that you dont want to thats fine i would just rather know the truth because i do think of you as a friend aswell you know and i think friends should tell the truth to each other'' in a calm voice lol

c ya darlin

[lee]

Thanks for the help. I know he's attracted to me because he's said that if it weren't awkward for him he would date me. I'll be hanging out with him later on today. Maybe something will happen.