question/relationships

[Billy15]

i know this will probably sound retarded but i read a bunch of stuff on vt and one thing i read a lot is guys saying they like boys or like gay porn and would have sex with a boy but could never be in a relationship and in a way that blows me away because i feel like im the opposite and its confusing.

i know everyone is different but 4 me i could do without the porn and maybe even the sex stuff with a boy but loving someone, being in a relationship with a boy and knowing they love me is more important 2 me then anything so i dont understand. im beginning to think that im just weird because i just seem so different the way i think about stuff. im not saying i wouldnt do sex stuff or dont think about that but i think about a relationship and being in love way more

[djdude]

Your just confused

[johnnyboyy]

sounds like puberty to me! i wouldn't act on your feelings towards guys until much later in puberty! if you make the decision to do something and everyone at school ends up thinking you are gay it could be catastrophic. so wait it out. how old are you? i was the same way when i was younger, but i didn't say anything to anyone. glad to cause that would have caused a lot of social issues!

[SurfDudeJason]

I agree with johnnyboyy

go easy dude ...

[nick]

You dont sound at all confused to me. You just want someone to love rather than just chasing after casual sex. Well good for you.

[Fruit_Tart.]

^^Hit my key words once again.. haha... yeah i agree. its okay to feel like that. i mean you don need sex in a relationship for it to keep going but it is good once and awhile :D. but a relationship means that your in love with someone and want to spend time with him/her the most time you can possibly find... idk if i made it clear.. sorry if i didnt...

[karl]

You're definitely not weird, good for you to want to have a relationship instead of just casual sex, I hope you find that special friend.

[gone]

I'm kinda in the same situation, I would like a relationship with a boy
I have never had a boyfriend/girlfriend, by choice, I've always stayed away from them, but recently I've been wanting to have one more and more...

I just don't know...

[Giles]

I would consider that the better way to feel. Instead of wanting to fuck everything that moves, you want to actually have someone to love and feel great with.

Well done. :)

[adam1995]

Sounds like your problem is your more mature then most of the prople who are usually on this site (including me). Good for you!

[Zazu]

P101 > r&d

[Zanra]

I'm the exact same way so it's ok Billy

[mathius]

i know this will probably sound retarded but i read a bunch of stuff on vt and one thing i read a lot is guys saying they like boys or like gay porn and would have sex with a boy but could never be in a relationship and in a way that blows me away because i feel like im the opposite and its confusing.

i know everyone is different but 4 me i could do without the porn and maybe even the sex stuff with a boy but loving someone, being in a relationship with a boy and knowing they love me is more important 2 me then anything so i dont understand. im beginning to think that im just weird because i just seem so different the way i think about stuff. im not saying i wouldnt do sex stuff or dont think about that but i think about a relationship and being in love way more

yeah i've noticed the samething you know it dont matter about the sex or porn it's who your with and how you feel that matters in my book

[lizzard]

i agree with you, i don't need the sexual relations, or the porn, but i want a relationship where i can openly love and openly be loved by someone

[Aspiringanonymous]

Please do not bump threads more than a month old, thanks! :locked: