confused

[nycbestkid]

i went to so someone about my sexuality but i keep thinking i am gay. every time when i tell my self that i am not something tells me i am gay. i have a sexual attraction to guys and i say from time to time that this guy looks good. but i have a sexual attraction to girls and emotional. every time when i think of my self dating someone i see a girl. i just need help i like some girls at my school also, but someone told me its normal for a straight person to be attracted to a girl emotionally then sexually. can someone help me

[Sugaree]

It's possible that you could be bisexual, but only you can tell. We can't help you very much without saying that. You also haven't mentioned your age, which would be an enormously great help for us at the moment. We could probably offer better advice with your age.

[nycbestkid]

im 16

[Mr. Smithers]

I would say that you are Bi-Sexual then. The age that you are, sexuality is already figured out usually. Having physical and emotional attraction to both sexes is bi-sexual. But it's also normal to only like one sex at a time though.

[Fruit_Tart.]

^^yeah i agree with him... your most likely to be bisexual if your attracted to girls and boys. i am. in fact lots of us here are... so your not alone. :D

[hidoyou]

I find the same thing. Though it seems its alot more swinging to girls. The thought of anal really turns me off, but i do find heaps of guys attractive sexually. Especially ones similar to me.

[nycbestkid]

well it took me sometime to figure out but i had to think i am really not sexually attracted to men. because i don't want to have sex with them if i see them, also the other day i was talking to some girl and i felt kind of nervous and shes cute and i had such a good feeling about her the next day because i am hoping that she will be my first GF. but yeah i really don't want to be with a guy i just never seen my self dating a boy or being married to one. but i read that its very common for guys to doubt their sexuality very much until their 17 so i am not bi i just say i am curios and very much people have bi sexuality in them but they don't act on it

[Gay Bot]

DIAGNOSIS: Bi-curious

[Charizard8]

You are like me, I feel the same way sometimes, though I never went to any1 bout it. Im Bi, u probably are too

[CuriousDestruction]

you are possibly bi-sexual/curious. but it's really hard to label teenagers as anything. our hormones are rushing everywhere. we are curious about everything. i wouldn't label yourself now. just go with the flow. but i will say this. i believe that if you like one gender emotionally and physically you are attracted to that gender, aka, gay/straight. if you like both equally you are bi. but like i said. just go with the flow for now, worry about labels later.

[thepieman]

You could be bisexual or curious. It took me longer to feel emotionally attracted to guys than it did to be sexually attracted to them. While I've always been attracted both ways to girls, I couldn't see myself being with a guy for a while. But eventually I could, and then I knew I was bisexual. I say this a lot, but realising you sexuality does take time, and only you know what it is.

[Giles]

If you feel emotional and sexual attraction to both sexes and you're 16, then chances are you're Bi.