Confrontation Situation.

[Huskyboy132]

Hey everyone! long time no see :)

Well,
Heres ma story.
Since school started, ive been liking this guy called Greg.
He had SO many points to show that he was gay.
1. Hung around girls all the time..
2. Never had a girlfriend while the first semester.
I told people I liked him. I was like in LOVE with him.
Then there was a new girl, who also came at the begining of the year, called Emily.
I told emily that i liked him.
Now, Just tonight, i was chatting with friends and they were like.. "Nils you HAVE to tell him!" And i kept on saying NO! I CANT!.
Well, i started a skype conversation with him. Came in quite usual.

Nils : hi
Greg: hello
Nils : watsup
Greg: nothin really, tgif :D
Greg: you?
Nils : deff :D

Then it kinda ended on a sudden basis.
at around 9:40PM

Then out of the blue at like 1:22AM

Greg: that conversation was random... since we're not even friends?
Greg: strange
Nils: ture. sorry for bothering i guess :(
Greg: yeah, erm ok how do i say this :S i'm straight, and this is really awkward
Greg: sorry she wasnt meant to tell and whatever
Nils: Omfg holy ****. is it really that obvious?
Greg: is what really that obvious?
Nils : dont tell anyone okay?
Nils : that im gay
Greg: no it wasnt obvious, emily told me :/
Nils : **********? {her last name was there}
Greg: yeah, sorry
Nils : Holy ****.
Nils : hahahahaha

So then he confronted me with liking him. Which hurt. real bad. but yeah.
my imaginary bubble world of being happy with greg.. POP.

Moral of the story, Emily told greg.. Choose who you're going to tell wisely.
Anyone else wanna share their epicle failure stories?

[Huskyboy132]

Nobody? Haha suprising.

[Golddron]

Hmmm, I'm not gay, but here's a failure story. There's this girl that I liked a lot, the only problem was she had a boyfriend. I could see that he was using her, but she couldn't bring herself to see it. I became close friends with her. A month or so later it seemed she finally seemed to realize that he was using her. She became very flirtatious with me, led me on, and it seemed that when she broke up with him, we would start dating. Then the day she breaks up with him, she tells me there's another guy she started liking a few weeks back...then they started going out. not too unique i'm sure but, its my worst failure story lol

[hhhh]

I dont mean to bump an old thread.k I just thought he wanted more of a response:

I get what your saying man. its hard to pick who you can trust and say different things to., Not just being gay, but anything in life.
From what you wrote, it seems like you didn't really know emily before you told her.
I have my own small group oof friends, but I know, talk to, and hang out with a (I think) huge number of people. I only tell people stuff if I've been hanging out with them for a while and know how they might react. What I'm trying to sya is that people have to be able to control their environment to an extent. If they can create a pleasnt "Safe" haven, then they can branch out and take more risks, because of the solid foundation they already made. I like to think that that is what I have done, but I'll never know unless it comes crashing down.

Sorry if its a late post again. Ihope this helps.

I'm always around to talk to if you or anyone wants to vent about stuff.

-Tom 15

[teenmanchester]

well emily doesn't sound like a good secret keeper.

[The Batman]

Don't bump old threads :locked: