clear my thoughts?

[javs26]

well, ive been single for a long time because ive been emotionally unstable so i never really tried getting a gf, some girls have given me strong clues that they like me but i just acted like i knew nothing (it was a dick move) but in December i met a girl i really like who is 1 year and 3 days younger then me (fricken sweet) and i think she likes me too. again, im emotionally unstable and i asked her out once on new years but i had to text cus she was visiting her sister, but i never got a straight answer from her, but now im sure she likes me even more and im scared to ask her out again, i feel like shes giving me strong hints but ive become pro at passing them off as nothing, she thinks im super cute and pretty (im a pretty boy ^_^) but i dont know if shes just flirting with no real intentions of it going anywhere or really sincerely likes me and im scared to ask because dating has not been one of my strong points even though my best friend says im like one of the sweetest guys shes ever met... the girl i like said that too

care to give me a hand here?

[Gumleaf]

well basically i think you need to build up the courage to ask her out. if you don't its going to be like a 3 ring circus in your head until you do. chances are if she is flirting that she has some interest in you. you might think that the worse thing that can happen is being rejected, but that is wrong. the worst feeling is not knowing how she feels and wasting your chance to be with someone youi like. go ahead and ask her.

[javs26]

thanks, ive spent countless nights awake thinking of how to get over my fears of dating (i went so deep that i traced it to BS chain letters) im gonna try it out and see what happens :/ ill post here my response