Supporting the one you love

[Hot Fudge]

My girlfriend is going through hell at the moment, her father is dieing because of his drink and alcohol addiction. Granted she rarely saw him but she still in pain. I really am struggling to support her, i havent seen her for a week and i just got off the phone from her but we been sending about 10texts a day to each other.

She really does sound bad her mum is even talking about getting a doctor to pescribe antidepresent tablets. Im really worried about her and im struggling to comfort her. Im really worried that she might do something stupid, on the phone she said why dont i just throw myself of the top of the hospital but i made her promise not to on the phone, so that means she wont but how can i stop her from feeling this way, her pain is my pain i love her so much, we have sacrifised so much for each other, our reputations, friends, oppourtunities but we do it because we love each other and i relly dont know what i would do without her. Her mum and my grandparents are the only ones who seem to approve of us and we havent done anything wrong, except follow our hearts

Help me, please reply

[Φρανκομβριτ]

I'm very sorry to hear this. Just try to spend lots of time with her. Suprise her. let her know that there IS someone there that cares, someone that loves her, and that she can get through this. I know it's really difficult, and you may have to go out of your way mate, but it's worth it. Even if she just wants to stay in, go around, stay with her, hug her, love her. you can do it mate!!

[Aηdy]

Show her just how much you love her in the best way you feel possible, stand by her, cumfort her, just be stong, you and her will get through it.

[Hot Fudge]

Thanks guys, i spoke to her this morning and he think her Dad will die within a day. I haven't got a problem with going out of my way, i get up at 6am every morning and walk 3miles to meet her at breakfast every morning. i just hope he dies as soon as because she is already grieving for him and she has to watch him die slowly and she has to see his body decolourise and degenerate, anything is better the her suffering that. I think if he dies tomorow i will walk round go see her, hold her and comfort her so that she doesnt get a chance to do something stupid. I love her and will always be there for her. I am sort of seeing this as a test for our love and loyalty and you know what i am gonna pass it if it kills me!!!!!!

Thanks guys