nobody

[Φρανκομβριτ]

There is actually nobody gay at my school. Wow, I never thought I'd have a thread in here. The two gay guys in my school of 2000+, 1 I've known since I immigrated, and the other I've dated already. I just don't know what to do. I'd like a boyfriend, but theres no one out there. Advice?

[Aηdy]

how do you know there aren't any? there could be a few who just either dont want to admit it or just dont want anyone to know

[Φρανκομβριτ]

well if they're not out, how do they expect to be in a relationship? lol.

[Hot Fudge]

Life isn't as simple as that, its all about confidence, you seem to be very confident and adiment in your sexuality, others aren't i wasn't at first but i know that i'm straight now. Im sure out of 2000+ people there will be at least 100 if not more homosexuals but they havent yet fully discovered or are not prepared to admit it yet. So you are not the only gay in the village. lollol:D soz im not being homophobic, i know most of you are good people, unlike most straight people i know lol

[Φρανκομβριτ]

it's jsut that doesn't help me. To know they're there, just not available. they might as well be straight! I want a boyfriend, and I don't know what to do. lol. If anyone has any tips on finding gays, it would be apperciated. All gay guys should have to wear a pink wristband or something to identify them!!

[what the?]

Believe me, I know how you feel. There's about two bisexuals and one other gay and he's a right twat lol. urgh, oh well. Don't worry hun, you'll find someone soon, I know it. Anyway, you've get the rest of your life to fully explore your sexuality. You've got so many new experiances to... experiance lol. Don't rush it.

[Hot Fudge]

I like the idea about the pink wrist band. lol

When i thought i was gay or when i was currious in that way i became very close friends with 2people and they both fancied me and unfortunatly for me still do. However one of those guys has moved away thank god coz he tryed to control me. The other guy i am still very good friends with and yes he does still seem to want me and i think it would kill him when news of my relationship with my girlfriend gets out, who i am in love with and i mean in love with.

Anyways i supose thats enough about me i get to the point:
The way i found out they are gay or bi was by talking to them becoming good friends with them and then you sorta got give an impression that you like them but nothing obvious. For example just you know put your hand on his knee when you're trying to get his attention and if he dont say anything about it then occasionally keep doing it and if he gives a similar response do something more deffinate that way you know.

good luck o by the way dont go felin people up just act you know very tactile with them and not everyone just people you suspect

c ya