A girl I REALLY like.

[RedTheViking]

Theres this girl and i really like her , if not love her ,... no to the hell with it ill say love , i may not be old enough to realise what love is , but i know well enough when it gets well past likeing someone.
But theres a problem... 3 in fact. Shes 14 and im 16, im not sure wether thats a major factor but to me it seems like one.
Shes my best friends sister, im not sure he would understand , because hes VERY protective of her (he broke a guys arms for whistling at her).
And she has Absolutely no clue that i love her... i think
I was over her house the other day and it was boiling hot and we (me and my mate were just lounging around doing nothing, then he goes on the computer.
i sit on a mattress on the floor watching tv and shes sitting up on the couch next to me and i yank a pillow off her (playfully) and we start taking the pillows and hoarding them (yes i know immature , but with her its fun to do anything).
But anyways , we lie down exausted (cause the heat). She starts playfully nudging me with her foot and soon were just nudging each others feet But its that kind of nudging that you do with your gf when your bored. (i know it sounds weird but its how it felt). And later i started poking her hand , cause i was bored , and she grabbed my hand and held it , i tried to look at her face but she looked away. She then pulled me off the couch. :D (But i think it was just a cover up ;))
But as you can see im very confused :confused: and am in need of counselling (so much so that it caused me to type all this on the holidays).
Thanks in advance.

[Darkness]

Wow, thats cute. You should talk to her, if you both feel the same way then get her to talk to her brother about you, see what his reaction is.

[ILOVEYOU]

umm i think she likes you, but she only wants to have fun with you, i mean like being playful with you, but i only think, i may be wrong, some girls are hard to understand, so you should give it a try and ask her how she feels about you, its either black or white, hehe, dont worry. give it a try ;)

[Kaius]

If im honest, age isnt as much of an issue as people try to make out. My girlfriends 14, im 17, yet we're happy. If you both feel the same, go for it. Try testing the waters with her brother, ask him questions without giving it away, you might be surprised. Good luck

[Asylum]

age doesn't matter... if is ment to be its ment to be. go talk to her! she might feel the same way. you never know until you try? right? good luck! :)

[2D]

Age is irrelevent, at least at this gap.

The issue is that she's your best friends sister. If you want to go out with her I suggest talking to him first to make sure it's okay. Clearly explain how you feel and give him your word you won't do anything to hurt her in any way.

Cheers

[Darkness]

Re-thinking this there are some stretagy you could try.

-Ask her out

1.Force
-Go out with her
-If your friend gets in the way, tell him to go to hell

2.Diplomacy
-Get her to tell him she likes you
-judge his reaction
-If he's sold on the idea, go with it
-If not try and convince him.

3.Deception
-Go out with her and don't let him find out.

[RedTheViking]

Ok Guys (and girls) , thanks for the advice and comments
i havent yet decided what to do , but i think ill tell her brother tentatively first , and then go out on a limb and just ask her out, no matter what he says. Wish me luck.:)
Thanks again for all the help