in need of some help, advice, or someome to say it's okay.

[girlofconfusion]

I have gone through massive stages of sexual confusion, I still have no real defined sexual identity. I feel as if I should, but then I say that I don't need to label myself.. urgh I don't know.
I have recently fallen hard for my best friend, I never thought she would like me but then she does things and I feel as if she might, my feelings intensify but then she does something else that makes me think she doesn't, I am now sure that I have strong feelings for her, but would not risk our amazing friendship on the chance that she might like me. I have done this previously with a friend, it has taken us two years to get back to how we were, I couldn't go that long without my bestfriend.
Anyhoo back to my sexual confusion. I have no real strong desire for one sex over another, I go to identify as bisexual, but I'm not really sure.
I don't think anyone can really give me any sort of help, but I really just had to rant, I can't to my best friend becuase half of this is over her and although we openly talk about everything, I get worried that I would accidently tell her how I feel. (oh just so you know my best friend is gay, if that influences anything)

[nick]

Lots of us go through this type of confusion during puberty, try not to feel bad about it. I agree that you dont need to label yourself, just do whatever feels right to you. You're right to think that telling your friend how you feel could change and maybe damage your friendship, but who knows, she might be thinking the same way about you. Sometimes you have to take a risk to be true to yourself and to at least have the chance of making progress.