BF too excited?

[yorkie]

Not quite sure how to say this and something about will probably break a rule but neway:

Well start off i'm in a bisexual three-way stable relationship ( me, bf and gf) u get the picture.

but anyway we are quite open, so recently i will be having sex with my gf (bf not involved) an then i will feel a third hand on my back and its him (don't mind much)...he soon leaves but then he actually has sex wiv me while im already doing it like a proper shock from behind...

now i don't initially mind this but i just feel he is overstepping bounds a little bit, i just don't wanna tell him cuz lately he thinks i'd rather be str8 (which isn't true).....HELP!?

[CuriousTeen101]

sorry but you have to break up with him thats just what i think take advice more seriously from some1 else more experienced at telling advice

[IAMWILL]

Hmmm.... Wow... Okay... Moving first to Relationships and Dating.

Otherwise though....
If you are uncomfortable with him doing it, tell him to stop and that you'll save something for him later.
If he's a good boyfriend, he should understand.
If he doesn't, he's only in it for sex, so dump him.
It may be a little harsh, but this is the simple solution. No excuses, you can't avoid it.

[Englishrose]

This is usually why three way relationships rarely work. You can't have the best of both worlds. However, I'm not here to judge. Simply tell him no. If you want to ask him to join in, you'll ask. If you are comfortable with him watching then that is okay, but if you are uncomfortable with him joining in then tell him no. However, I do think that is slightly hypocritical. Three way relationships are usually sexual, and I'm assuming here, but he might think he has the right to join in, you are in fact his girlfriend, and watching you is going to turn him on. It can only really be expected. I'd advise you to set some boundaries before the relationship comes crashing down because three people in a relationship is obviously not working sexually right.

[nick]

If you dont want to be doing 3-way then obviously you should tell him that and ask him to respect your privacy when you're with the girl.

[Giles]

Tell him that you don't want him to do that. Say you'll do something for him later, or you'll do it another time.