boyfriend letting me 'mess around'. What he is trying to say/do? :S

[Soccer Girl 13]

My boyfriend said i could 'mess around' with some girls (im bi) if i wanted to, Like i thought it was kool at first but than i started thinking about it more, and now im just wondering what he is trying to say or do.. I feel like he is trying to let me find someone else, is he really not that into me?
Im just so confused right now..

[Sage]

He could be a swinger or fan of open relationships.

[Darkness]

Maybe he doesn't think that you are Bi and wants you to "Grow out of it." or maybe HE'S insecure about YOUR sexuality.

[Mental]

My boyfriend said i could 'mess around' with some girls (im bi) if i wanted to, Like i thought it was kool at first but than i started thinking about it more, and now im just wondering what he is trying to say or do.. I feel like he is trying to let me find someone else, is he really not that into me?
Im just so confused right now..
Some guys find lesbian/bi girls kissing eachother or fucking eachother hot. Notice how he didn't say you could mess around with other guys?

[Mr. Smithers]

He probably wants you to be with another girl so that you can have a three person relationship, and if I were you I would totally not go for that. I would just talk to him and say that if I were to be with another guy, would you be alright with that? His answer is probably going to be no.

[Soccer Girl 13]

Deschain - Yeah probs, but what should i do about it?

Darkness - I've been bi for 2/3 years. But i don't know why he would be insecure tho, after all he is bi aswell..

Mental - Yeah i know for a fact he thinks its hot, when we werent going out we were talking about it and yeah :D Yeah i did notice that, but does that really mean anything if he's bi?

Discotheque - Yeah, im not gonna go for it. For most guys it would be a straight up NO, But knowing him he would most likely say yes..


Thanks for all your replies guys and girl ( :

[Ryhanna]

Agreed with Mental's point of your boyfriend saying you could mess around with GIRLS, not guys. It sounds as though he's into that stuff, of course, if you're not willing to have an open relationship like that then say so.

[Giles]

I'm thinking that he wants a threesome to be honest.

[Jean Poutine]

If I were you, I'd fool around with one of these butch lesbian militant types that hate men just to spite him.

[2D]

If I were you, I'd fool around with one of these butch lesbian militant types that hate men just to spite him.

This.

[Soccer Girl 13]

Ryanlol - Yeah maybe he does want an open relationship, but i don't know if i want one or not, im just kinda confused about that. Don't get me wrong i always love flirting with girls, i mean its fun and can get pretty hot at times, but im just confused.

Benmullet - Yeah, Maybe he does. :S

Uchimata and Motormouth - Well the girl who's been acting pretty friendly towards me, is butch but i don't know if she's a lesbian. So you guys reckon i should flirt with her a little bit becoz my boyfriend wont like it??

[cherry_boi]

most guys find girl on girl to be a turn on, umm but yea if i was in love with someone i wudn't let them mess around with anyone.....regardless of their gender.

[Jean Poutine]

Uchimata and Motormouth - Well the girl who's been acting pretty friendly towards me, is butch but i don't know if she's a lesbian. So you guys reckon i should flirt with her a little bit becoz my boyfriend wont like it??

Well, I was mostly joking.

That being said, your boyfriend sounds like he's quite the scheming little man. I would give him a wake-up call by foiling his plans, if any, but I'm rancorous, vengeful and quite the asshole.

Do what you want. But if he lets you fool around with chicks, he's going to fool around with guys.

[Soccer Girl 13]

Cherry_boi - Yeah i get what your saying, and i think your right.

Uchimata - Well maybe flirting with a butch chick would ruin his plans if it was to have a threesome and just put him off.
No your not any of them things, your nice ( :
Yeah im sure if i did mess around with a chick, he would mess around with a guy.

[Ryhanna]

Ryanlol - Yeah maybe he does want an open relationship, but i don't know if i want one or not, im just kinda confused about that. Don't get me wrong i always love flirting with girls, i mean its fun and can get pretty hot at times, but im just confused.

Benmullet - Yeah, Maybe he does. :S

Uchimata and Motormouth - Well the girl who's been acting pretty friendly towards me, is butch but i don't know if she's a lesbian. So you guys reckon i should flirt with her a little bit becoz my boyfriend wont like it??

Just don't let him pressure you into something you aren't comfortable with. Thats not fair.

[Soccer Girl 13]

Yeah i wont, i never do anything i'm not comfortable with. Thanks alot xx

And thanks to everyone for all their help ( : i love you all xxxx