thanks dad..

[Fiending_the_freedom]

so in march, finally i had the guts to admit that i need therapy to my dad.
so after a week of him doing nothing, i took it into my own hands and went to see someone to sign up.
i got in, only to hear i'll be seeing them in august cuz theres a 6 month waiting list.
great.
so after 3 months, i tell my dad i can't wait that long, can he please find me some private therapy.
he says yes,
week later, nothing happenes, i call my dad to remind him
"i'm busy right now"
so i find one myself, hand him the phone number and tell him the name of the place only to hear:
Oh yes, i know this place, i called theri last week to get maria in!"
marias my dads gf.
thanks dad. thnaks for remebering me, you know, your daughter?
so now, two weeks after this. i'm stuck here. with my dad not remebering that i need help. and my little reminders doing nothing.

[confused4lif3]

wow, that must be very diappointing!!! If you are old enough you can seek therapy on your own. You said, you had found someone, but cannot get in for three months. Keep looking and calling, there are tons of people available that could probably see you sooner. good luck

[Φρανκομβριτ]

well tegan, myabe he doesn't want to admit his baby needs help. Maybe he thinks your fine, because that's what he wants to think, which by no means makes it right. I think you should go down to east end health centre, its right at the bottom of coxwell and queen across from the stag shop, and ask them for a counsiler. No waiting. It'll do you good. We love you Tegan!! :hug:

[TeenInNeed]

that must really suck, my dad would probably be the same way to me.

[TehBovril]

It must be a dad thing. Mine did the exact same thing. Now after nearly a year of having a counseller he just acts like everything is fine. I dont think he even knows i go come to think of it...

Hope everything gets sorted for you.

[Fiending_the_freedom]

i dont care what my dad thinks, i've jsut wanted some help for very long.......and it bugs me that he doesn't even relize now that i'm not ok, he thinks i'm fine, hmp, i should tell him to look at my arms and tell me i'm fine

[TheWizard]

If that's what works then show him you arm. Tell him you are thinking of killing yourself. That should get his attention.

[Fiending_the_freedom]

i'd never have the guts to do that.
i tried to tel my sister over the phone (who also ued to cut,. i'm very close with her) and i hung up and almost puked from the anxiety

[Whisper]

your dad blows..sorry

If i was you i'd try and tell your sister
if its really hard for you to physically talk about it (belive me i understand that) then try just typing up an e-mail to her
and send that
it sounds like she can help