Still Don't Know

[All Round]

I've posted this before, but last time I posted it I didn't really get an answer, so i'm going to ask again and maybe this time I might get a helpful answer.

For awhile now i've been questioning my sexuality. I thought I was pan-sexual laster year but then I realized I actually do have preferences with gender so that obviously makes me not a pansexual. I'm not a lesbian because I like guys just as much as I like girls. I feel kind of like I might be transgender because I feel like if I'd been born male I would have been a lot happier. Um if I had been born male i'm almost 90% sure I would also have been gay, cause I like guys in like a gay way, if that makes any sense. I prefer the dominant role in a relationship with a guy as well as with girls, but if I had to choose between a guy partner or a girl i'd probably pick a guy so long as I was dominant per say in the relationship. So Yeah, and i'm also attracted to transvestites too. So I have no idea what my sexuality is and I find it a little bit distressing to not know what title I fall under, so if there's anyone who can help me or maybe can redirect me to another source where I might get my answer, that would be amazing. So yeah.

[L]

uh, im really no expert on the subject, but if i had to say anything i'd say your bi.

[All Round]

But bi's are only attracted to males and females and I find myself highly attracted to transvestites and cross dressers. I also don't think bi would cover the certain circumstances in which I like being with either gender.

[Mr. Smithers]

I would still say that you are Pansexual. Transgender is a gender role.

[ShatteredWings]

^^gender identity, gender role is how men and women are 'expected' to be, identity is how your mind works.

it's confusing when you throw your own gender identity in the mix.. but if you like guys as much as girls, you're probably bi...

[Carter]

I think you are Omni-sexual... not sure. just my opinion.

[CuriousDestruction]

you may be omni-sexual, but it could be that you aren't anything yet. i know it feels weird to be none of the above, but perhaps your sexuality hasn't fully developed yet. many teenagers won't truly know their sexuality until they are in their 20s. for now i'd just let yourself go where you want to go. let your sexuality speak for itself. also, many women prefer to be dominant in their relationships in general, with men and women. PM me if you wanna talk more about this.

[beedubs]

i think your just very VERY confused

[All Round]

@ Beedubs, Aw well thanks for being helpful.

I'll take a look at omni-sexual. However you could be right CuriousD, thanks for offering to talk with me =)

[Ryhanna]

Hmm... This is a tough one...
I have no clue what omnisexual means and honestly I'm too lazy too look it up right now hehe

But it sounds to me like you just like everything (I bet thats what omni-sexual means, right?)

[StraightAcE]

whats a pansexual xD

[All Round]

Really easy to look up but here are the definitions for you two anyways x3

Pansexual: "The word pansexual is used as an inclusive term as opposed to bisexual, as bisexuality only refers to people liking both men and women, and does not including a wider variety of gender neutral or gender fluid terminology. Pansexuals have the capability of attraction to others regardless of their gender identity or biological sex. A pansexual could be open to someone who is male, female, transgender, intersex, or agendered/genderqueer."

Omnisexual (pretty much the same thing): "Person attracted to all sexes and to all forms of sexuality, in distinction to bisexual (attracted to two sexes) and monosexual (attracted to one sex)."

[StraightAcE]

thanks =]

[CuriousDestruction]

I'll take a look at omni-sexual. However you could be right CuriousD, thanks for offering to talk with me =)[/QUOTE]


:D any time