arghhh i need someone else's opinion

[Asylum]

ok so well the last time i asked for someone's opinion here was with the guy i am still with now. he was going to go to prom wiht this girl Alex. Well guess what? he was at her house today before her voice lesson without adult superviison.... and he is saying i shouldn't be making it a big deal..... wtf?! i'm sorry.... but she likes him.... i should be worried..... . arghh i'm soo mad and hurt.. who knows what they did...

[Fiction]

I think you definatley should be concerned. Ask him what the hell he is playing at :)

[jajaja]

Was anyone else there with them, or was it just them? And did he tell you he was going over?

[Asylum]

well i'm not sure... i know no adult waz there. in the hallway he asked his bro if he was going . and he said no... so i thougth it was just them.. until of course he said in a text his bro kept bothering him while he waz doing hw at her house (text was after he got back hourrs latter) and then i said well ur bro said he wasn't goign i was there when he said it.. and he said no he was there... contradiction 1.... then he said latter how boring it was and how he read 40 pages of a book... note he said earlier he did no homeowrk because he was distracted by brother... he also had no idea "there was going to be no adult supervision" and yes he told me... he didn't mention he was giogn to her voice lesson, not at home with her jsut the two of them hours before lesson...

[Asylum]

note this is the same guy who i told him my how sorry i felt about my friend how's boyfriend slept with his ex. and his comment to that was things happen.... i'm like wtf?!?! so i wouldn't question him normally... but this is fishy...

[jajaja]

I'd ask his brother. If his brother did go, you have nothing to worry about. And he could have possibly meant that his brother distracted me, but he still got hw done. And what if he didn't know there was going to be no adult supervision? How old are you both? If you are in highschool, it's normal for friends to hang out without any adults. Boys and girls can be just friends. It is irritating when people make a big deal when a boy and a girl hang out together...they can just be friends, you know.

And those things do happen. It's a part of life.

[Asylum]

his brother would lie for him... and no he said two compeltely different tings... and i'm in high school.. no adult supervision is a big no no.... like there was just her and him alone in a house... ok, i've never been alone with him before at any house, nor have i been or thought of being anywhere alone with any person of the opposite sex.. and he is a hypocrite i can't hang out with my friend Ben with 4 other people because he thinks ben lieks me... but he can hang out alone with a girl who likes him? i don't think so... i'm ok if they are just friends... but she doens't want to be just friends and i don't trust him in that situation to have to balls to do whats right... say no.. and yes those things do happen... it doens't mean its right..

and i would beleive him... but he is a complusive liar,