pleasure/orgasm???

[skyekirstyn]

so i have a question.

i have been (sexually) with people before. but i have never really orgasmed. is this normal? and i have never ever "cummed" which is sad, cause everyone talks about how good it feels. so am i missing out on something? ha, what am i doing wrong? and what are some tips to make it happen?

[mmke94]

dont worry its normal plus it depends on how long u do it for and theres like tons of stuff and differnt things u can do dont worry tho its totally normal

[SmileyGirl]

nah i wouldnt worry, i saw a show that answered questions like that and they said that some couples search for years trying to find that "spot" and some didnt kno that men "cum". And they were adults.

[harjob]

If you are not with it mentally, tis may happen.But this is normal I guess.

[live_love_learn]

lol there are many possible reasons. some people say its the G-spot but apparently study proves there is no G-spot neway... lol i suggest if you want to have an orgasm, try figure out the things that feels good to you thru masturbating and just get the guy to do that when you're with him? lol

[transiant]

gorls cant cum if they dont have sperm :P

[Hannahgurl]

I have had lots of orgazms I love it but to be honest you have to be totally into it.. I have orgasms while I masterbate, and when I get it orally. but It is a diffrent feeling when a guy is in you. still feels awsome. but diffrent. try lots of masterbation, think of naughty thoughts, find someone who is good at giving you oral sex, and be totally into it.

[BeautifulDisaster]

Girls can cum.

Look it up.


& you need to be in the mindset, & don't hold back.
Find the right spots for you.
Try new things.

I haven't cummed, I've only had clit stimulated orgasms.

[vic203140]

if you are not with it mentally, tis may happen.but this is normal i guess.

i so agree

[Country-Cowgirl]

ok first of all "cum" is not a gender specific thing. women or "girls" do cum and no its not just sperm. really you are trying to give advice on a topic you obviously know nothing about? wow anyways.

It is normal to not feel anything or not have a reaction to anything for multiple reason. Your not really into it, your loose (your cunt is bigger/more open then his dick) and yes even condoms effect feeling. One thing you might want to try in just intimacy not sex just being together kissing cuddling and all the mushy romantic stuff.

Find spots or positions that are both comfortable and give you feeling. think only about being with whomever your with and dont worry about it is perfectly normal.

[JessicaUK]

I thought 'come' and orgasm were more or less the same thing. The thing that boys do, as in ejaculating, is sort of the same as when a girl 'squirts'. At least that's what I have thought. I think some girls see 'come' as squirting or call it the same thing. I can get very wet when I masturbate and I'm really turned on and I think maybe I refer to it as 'come' as well.

[nick]

I thought 'come' and orgasm were more or less the same thing. The thing that boys do, as in ejaculating, is sort of the same as when a girl 'squirts'. At least that's what I have thought. I think some girls see 'come' as squirting or call it the same thing. I can get very wet when I masturbate and I'm really turned on and I think maybe I refer to it as 'come' as well.
Boys, once they get the ability to ejaculate, can not normally orgasm without cumming. Cumming really means ejaculation, orgasm is the feeling that goes with it, normally like the release of a huge pent up tension.

For girls its different. Most girls can get an orgasm through stimulation of the clitoris, I guess thats the normal method, but there's no ejaculation associated with that. Now some girls, but not all, may be able to "squirt", which is the equivalent of an ejaculation, that usually comes from internal stimulation of the "G spot" (if it exists).

So as I understand it, most girls can get a clitoral orgasm, and some can get a g-spot orgasm and squirt.

[JessicaUK]

Boys, once they get the ability to ejaculate, can not normally orgasm without cumming. Cumming really means ejaculation, orgasm is the feeling that goes with it, normally like the release of a huge pent up tension.

For girls its different. Most girls can get an orgasm through stimulation of the clitoris, I guess thats the normal method, but there's no ejaculation associated with that. Now some girls, but not all, may be able to "squirt", which is the equivalent of an ejaculation, that usually comes from internal stimulation of the "G spot" (if it exists).

So as I understand it, most girls can get a clitoral orgasm, and some can get a g-spot orgasm and squirt.
I can't squirt or anything but thanks for the reply. I think I understand it better now.

[DoveGreySands]

I can't squirt or anything but thanks for the reply. I think I understand it better now.

It's a pretty rare thing for girls to squirt, so don't you worry hun. :)

[JessicaUK]

It's a pretty rare thing for girls to squirt, so don't you worry hun. :)

I won't. It's not something that bothers me anyway. I read on another forum that lots of girls do it something like 4 times a day, and I just thought it was nonsense.

[kentucky girl]

Don't worry about it. I didn't orgasm either the first few times but after a while everything changed and I did have orgasms and still do