My boyfriend won't kiss me?

[littlekristen411]

I've been dating my boyfriend for almost two months now. He kissed me after the first week and we made out a month after that. He's made out with one other girl so all of this isn't new. But for some reason, even now, I'm the one that has to initiate a kiss. Not even making out. Just a kiss. He'll kiss my cheek and my forehead, but never my lips by himself. I know he wants to kiss me and he knows that I want to kiss him. So why am I the one that has to kiss him rather than he kiss me and is there something I can do to change it?

Thanks,
Kristen

[2D]

Perhaps he wants you to take some control and initiative. I bet you he would like that.

[Mr. Smithers]

He probably just wants to be a gentleman. He's afraid to make the wrong move that you won't like. Just tell him that you don't mind if he kisses you on the lips.

[Hatsune Miku]

It could be any of these:

He wants you to be the leader, and take control. He probably enjoys female dominance
He doesn't wanna screw up
He doesn't wanna kiss you at a bad time and upset you

I dunno, Sorry im not much of a help

[Sage]

We're gonna need some leather here.

[Ryhanna]

Kristen, don't take it personally. He obviously likes you a lot, but he's just scared of making a wrong move and making you think he's some perverted psycopath or offending you. Just let him know that it's okay.

[Sage]

Just let him know that it's okay.

Call me old-fashioned, but I liked it back in the day when only confident people got girl/boy friends.

[Beautiful Obsession]

maybe hes shy? and doesnt no when the timings right? i wouldnt take it personally.. or maybe like others have said, he wants you to take control? x

[Memory]

He's probably worried about you thinking that he is a pervert. Either that or he is worried about messing it up with you.

[maddii-may]

he wants you to take the lead you could try showing him if you want him too take the lead

[ErykaInspire.]

Some guys like initiative, Others don't. I know when I was with a guy, he always had to kiss me. I was always far to shy to kiss him, and we were together for 2 months. It's not something that can be "changed", just give him more time to warm up to you. It's a possibility that he doesn't know HOW to make the first move. Start testing him; Get really close to his lips, but don't kiss him. See if he kisses you. Once he gets used to that, perhaps he'll start to get more comfortable with kissing you first. It's all a game of cat and mouse, you're either the catcher, or the one getting caught. Make him catch you. (;

[StraightAcE]

hes probably being careful

[RedTheViking]

When im with a girl im always shy and i dont like making wrong moves that could stuff things up. So i nearly always wait untill she initiates something or its a time when i cant stuff something up (happens very rarely). But it really depends on the guy.

[Darkness]

He might want to know if you want to have sex with him, if he's surrendering the initiative.

[ErykaInspire.]

I don't think this has anything to do with sex. It may just be a base to his comfort level.
You just have to work with him(: Everyone is different in a relationship.

[Gumleaf]

the reason why could be anything, i think your best strategy would be just to sit down and ask him straight out. most likely by talking about it, you can figure things out. just speculating doesn't help anyone and if anything makes things more frustrating. i know it might not be an easy convo to have, but its always better to have everything in the open because if you don't talk about it now, it might damage your relationship if you don't act on this soon.

[kyle95]

inspiration is spot on. give him time. in the meantime try a few things to entice him like flavoured lipstick. it could be that he's conscious of breath, or yours (sorry), give him a stick of gum. the main thing is that he's acting like a gentleman which is a lot more than most blokes

[Giles]

Like lots of people have said maybe he just wants you to take control.