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janjanTRIP_
January 24th, 2010, 05:54 PM
my dad was cheating on my mom with this stupid blond bitch who's like, half his age. he says they didnt do anything. my mom still loves him and he says he loves her. i know its not my problem, but how can we trust him anymore? my mom wants me to go to a counsilor, but i dont really feel sad about this. just kinda angry at my dad (ill get over it) and that bitch. so, should i go to counsiling or not?

TheTruth
January 24th, 2010, 06:16 PM
Well by the sounds of it I wouldn't say you need to. You seem strong and confident about it and it's only natural to be angry. I would only suggest you do if you get really upset about it on more than 1 occasion or if it's always on your mind and interfering with your daily lifestyle.

jess_13
February 19th, 2010, 05:48 AM
why would you need councilling for? you didn't cheat on anybody but maybe your mom and dad should go to councilling tho

honeybear
February 19th, 2010, 07:53 AM
my friend's parents went through a bad time like this and they all went to family counseling along with them going to marriage counceling....

Hatsune Miku
February 20th, 2010, 02:58 AM
I don't think you need counseling. I kinda went threw the same thing, twice. My real dad got deported to Portugal when I was little, when I was around 5 years old. Then my step-dad entered the picture... My mom finally divorced him, kinda glad about that one.

Anyways If you're not sad I don't see any reason. And being angry at him is normal. You'll get over it eventually