Zero Self Esteem

[Doctor Fate]

Please Tell me how to have more self esteem... and how to make it not so fragile... jus kinda need 2 know xx

[Mr. Smithers]

The more you love yourself, the higher it goes up. The more you hate yourself, the lower it goes. The key is loving yourself, and believing in yourself.

[DaretoFallup]

The more you love yourself, the higher it goes up. The more you hate yourself, the lower it goes. The key is loving yourself, and believing in yourself.


That pretty much sums it up. You can't have self esteem, if you're constantly picking at yourself. You have to accept who you are, and love yourself.

[DayBreakArt]

Acceptance and self love. Exactly what has been said. Try to look in the mirror and think about all the positives. Smile, seriously. Smiling makes people feel good. (: Compliment yourself. Know you arent perfect but you're pretty damn great. (: When youre happy you tend to feel good about yourself so do stuff that makes you happy. Where something that gets attention, let yourself be free and you'll feel good about yourself. It may seem crazy or stupid but it really works. (:

[Asylum]

i know you might view this as stupid, but go to the mirror each mornign and say 3 good things about yourself... and latter just laugh at yourself naked in the mirror... thats what my psycologist told me to do... hope it helps

[LunacyFringe]

Whenever you think of bad things about yourself say, "ok, I may not be good at those things but I am good at..."
By doing this you are accepting your flaws and embracing your positive traits.

Also, instead of dwelling on the negative aspects of your personality find ways of improving them.

[jess_undead]

think about the good things in your life.
Leave yourself notes saying nice things. :)

[abcd920]

i know how u feel high school as screwed my selfesteem so much but ur definetily not alone

[seansaurusrex]

Acceptance and self love. Exactly what has been said. Try to look in the mirror and think about all the positives. Smile, seriously. Smiling makes people feel good. (: Compliment yourself. Know you arent perfect but you're pretty damn great. (: When youre happy you tend to feel good about yourself so do stuff that makes you happy. Where something that gets attention, let yourself be free and you'll feel good about yourself. It may seem crazy or stupid but it really works. (:

She's right.
I used to have a very low self-esteem.
I've noticed it works to talk about it with friends, and looking at your positives.
I still have bad days, just like everyone else.