Best Friends...

[mexa]

SO I've noticed lately...I don't really have a best friend. I have many friends, guys and girls, but no best friend...no one I've really trusted enough to tell my thoughts or someone that trusts me to tell me his thoughts...well except for one friend that told me he's bi but he's not my best friend. All the guy friends I've had are always "good" people but I've never felt I can trust them completely, girls on the other hand talk to me about their crushes with guys that I know and stuff.

I need to learn to trust my friends...but it's just that I fear that they're not my real friends and that they would backstab me afterwards...

I wish I had a best friend...then again maybe I do but I haven't realized it yet.

Advice? Opinions?

[Mr. Smithers]

The friends you have now could be best friends, just get to know them more.

[Contra]

Talk to one of your friends, one that you trust more, and share your feelings with him/her, maybe say you would like a friend you can trust and share stuff. I did that with a friend, and we share some secrets now, I consider her one of my best friends.

Also, go with August's advice too.

[obiwan94]

Would agree, the more you hang out and do stuff together the closer you will become...in theory at least. It is really nice to have people you can completely trust and talk to about anything but sometimes there just arent people around who you'd want to be best friends with...hopefully someone will come along that you can connect with