"Friends"

[TheTruth]

Hey I'm just wondering if anyone else feels the same as me.

So i have freinds yes i have really close ones and the ones who i just say hi too but i always get the feeling that they aren't actually friends. Like... If i didn't talk to them, they wouldn't talk to me. For example my friends won't text me saying 'hey, how are you' etc etc it's always me texting them. And on msn i'm the one who always has to start a conversation to get them talking to me, the only time they start it is if they need some help with homework. What do I do? I'm so confused as to who my real friends are. If any....

[Ballin2much]

hm i get texts a lot from friends, most are just forwards lol, but anyways, maye they just dont have anything to text you about...? i mean do they talk to you a lot at school?

[wisse2012]

ifeel the exact same if i dont text them then they dont text me

[that kid]

I feel like that with my friends from my new school. Everyone talks about stuff they did together over the weekend yet I'm never invited.

[mexa]

=o this happens to me too, but recently a couple of friends are the ones that start the conversation from time to time...or they're just massively bored, but i like the fact that they start the conversation. As for who your real friends are...you can always ask n.n haha

[Gumleaf]

i know what you mean there dude. i'm a very insecure person and i feel the same way. often i think my friends are false and don't really like me because the only time they try and talk to me is when they want something and otherwise i have to start talking to them. i'm not talking about all my friends obviously, but a high percentage of them. there really isn't much you can do about it other then to trust that they are your real friends and that these negative thoughts or theories you have is more a case of over analysing rather then reality.