New advice on a very, very old post.

[nullandvoid123]

Wow, it's been awhile since I've been here. Everything looks so different... Anyway, back in the day, I had this huge story I needed advice for with this girl. Her name was Carly... Ring any bells? So,to make a long story short, she didn't like me. I was depressed for a while but I finally started getting over it. Anway, I just came home from a swim party, and she was there. It didn't have any effect on me until we started playing truth or dare. My friends, being the assholes they are, wanted to exploit that I once liked her, so they dared her to do this stupid little thing where she went under the water, came up and flicked her hair, and then hugged me. She was acting all "I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings," because she got to choose who she would do it to. So I swam over to the deep end to dunk my friend or something, and I guess she thought I couldn't hear her, because I heard her saying, "Ugh, no. I'm not doing it with Zach." Yep, this was a pretty big blow to my recovering self esteem. She must think I'm really ugly. I'm starting to feel like I did back after she said she wouldn't go out with me. Any advice on keeping my self esteem up, so I don't go into this depression that she put me into before? I don't know why, but I just can't get that one stray hope out of my mind that she may like me... It sucks.

[Elokyn]

omg, trust me I know how you feel!
I don't know how many times I've been called ugly or fat by people I hardly even know! and people that I liked! I was mortified for so long and I just started thinkin to myself...you know what, if that person is so shallow that they have to put me down to feel superior then I am SO above them. If she can't even be considerate enough to keep her big mouth shut, ESPECIALLY, when she knows that you're there, then she doesn't deserve you.
You don't want her! You'd have to sink to her level and then you'd just be short (tehe, I kid) but seriously, you're so much better than that, and you're such a cutie! Don't let her get you down. You're great! love ya zach! :hug2:
lub lub
Elokyn

[Aηdy]

nykole your soo right, she doesnt deserve you, you can do so much better, you ra decent guy, you will find the right one

[nullandvoid123]

Thanks guys. I needed some help. I can always count on the people at VT to help me out. :)

[Peanut Butter]

Zach I know exactly how you feel. It hurts. But I realized why the heck am I busting my chops for a girl who is never gonna like me. Blow her off. Dont worry about what she said.

[mr_smite1]

Just take life as it goes. Accept yourself for who you are and her descions. (lol spellin). She will come round (unless she turns lesbian or dies :P)

[RowanVer.3.0]

She seems like an ass. I've got friends like that too. When they do stuff like that I let them know I mean bussiness though. But yeah, you aren't stupid for liking her. I think everybody has the ideal relationship in their mind and they kind of match their crush with it even if they don't know the person.

That's how it is for me anyway, good luck man. That pic you had of her a while back didn't look to great anyways.

-Rowan

[mr_smite1]

could u post a pic of her now/

Lol and ditch your arsey friends :P