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hockey08
January 22nd, 2010, 11:55 PM
5 days ago me and my girlfriend of 2 years broke up. i know it looks like a quick recovery but anyways im good now. so now that im back in the dating game and ive been unavaible for 2 years lots of girls started to talk to me. some flirting more obviously than others. this one girl witch is from a town 1 hour from mine is flirting with me alot and she says she loves me and all that. and ive been like not flirting back and she asked why and i said cause im not that easy. so anyways she told me she flirts with alot of boys so i guessed it wasnt serious. and when she said ilu i said me 2. i never met this girl before but i guess she friends with one of my friends. shes kinda pretty but i dont really want a relationship right now cause i just got out of a serious one and im just looking for being single or just a casual relationship. when i asked my friend if he knew her he said "yeh shes a wh*re." he says that about a lot of girls but anyways. im really confused cause i have little litle feelings for her but idk:what::confused: sorry for the long paragraph but its just that complicated. any tips? plus since she lives 1 hour and i never go to her town i would probs never see her.

Mr. Smithers
January 23rd, 2010, 12:30 AM
I would just forget about her. I would listen to your friends. I remember I liked this person, and one of my closest friends told me to stay away from him, that he's trouble. I didn't listen to my friend and guess what, the guy really was trouble. So if your friend says that she's not a good girl to be with, I wouldn't be with her. You might be right, you just got over a long relationship, and you might not be ready yet.

hockey08
January 23rd, 2010, 12:33 AM
thanks man..and i feel a little bad cause she asked me if i had feelings for her and i said a little and she asked me if i see myself dating her and i said im not ready and all that and now shes heart-broken =(

2D
January 23rd, 2010, 12:39 AM
Oh boy, I was in the same situation. The sooner you move on the better. I dragged it out with her and she's still stalking me 6 months later. Bad news. You did the right thing though. Take solace in that.

Cheers

hockey08
January 23rd, 2010, 01:13 AM
awrite thanks man i still feel bad but i guess its better than having someone stalk you..all my sympathies dude.. n yeh im back in tha game and theres plenty of fish in the seas