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AlwaysConfused
January 22nd, 2010, 09:30 PM
Ok well i am still confused about my sexuality and i only have feelings for like one or two girls and the rest guys. I tend to slip into my own world from time to time and i think about what i would do wit my guy friends.....wen i get out of my "fantasies" i feel terrible. Like im not supposed to think this way or like im not supposed to have these feelings. And this is about the guys...the girls i cant picture myself doing anything with a girl for some reason. I tried really hard once and never got to anything. And then i would switch over to a guy fantasy.... I like dis one particular guy but he has a gf and such but we do joke around alot but it never increased to anything else. I have no idea whats goin on in my head or why i feel this way but its come to be that im only turned on by guys........girls disappeared from the picture. Can anyone help me?

Mr. Smithers
January 22nd, 2010, 09:32 PM
That happens with sexuality and growing up. You just have to accept that you like guys. You also have to accept you cant be with the guy you always dream about. I'm always here to talk, I was once in your shoes, not sure of what I like, but eventually you'll accept yourself for who you are. Others should also accept you, friends and family.

NextToNormal
January 23rd, 2010, 11:44 AM
i know you are probably tired of hearing this, but you are fifteen so your hormones are raging right now. of course, thats not to say that you arent genuinely attracted to guys. you just need to give your body time to adjust to the increase in hormones. once that happens, you will be able to clearly see who it is you are truly attracted to. but remember, youre not wrong for having these feelings. you may feel that way at times, but there is nothing wrong with liking or fantasizing about someone of the same sex.

Carter
January 23rd, 2010, 01:16 PM
Yes Mikey. I completely understand you... When coming back from those fantasies... you feel perverted... But now I'm starting to accept these feelings that I have. Maybe you should try to also.

AlwaysConfused
January 23rd, 2010, 04:21 PM
Yes Mikey. I completely understand you... When coming back from those fantasies... you feel perverted... But now I'm starting to accept these feelings that I have. Maybe you should try to also.

Lol Carter Perverted is the g version of the way we feel lol. But yea i am accepting these feelings but ya know it gets kind of difficult wen it comes down to certain things.:yummy: