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2D
January 22nd, 2010, 08:39 PM
My ex is stalking me, but in a friendly way. She won't stop calling and txting me wanting to be friends. We've already tried that and it didn't work.

I've tried everything: asking nicely, being a complete jackass, ignoring her completely, explaining I want nothing to do with her, nothing has worked. I'm pretty sure she hasn't got over me, because when I felt obligate to help her (looooong story) I saw she was still wearing a necklace I gave her. Any ideas fellas?

Mr. Smithers
January 22nd, 2010, 09:02 PM
Just keep ignoring her. That sounds mean, but if she won't accept it, that's your last resort. I mean, you tried talking to her, still wouldn't listen, so just ignore her, eventually she will get the hint I guess.

2D
January 22nd, 2010, 09:07 PM
I'm not sure if that will work. I ignored her for about 3 months and she just wouldn't stop. I think I might block her number. I'm not sure how to do that though.

Off to AT&T I suppose.

Mr. Smithers
January 22nd, 2010, 09:08 PM
I think I might block her number.

That's also a good choice I guess.

2D
January 22nd, 2010, 10:05 PM
Well, I don't have 5 bucks to spend every month, so it's either jailbreak the phone or figure something else out.

I need something soon as a txt ever minute is getting aggravating.

Rutherford The Brave
January 22nd, 2010, 10:37 PM
I'd talk to like your guidence counselor or something. In some cases they will ask the child to stop contacting you and if it gets out of hand you can press for a restraining order.

The Batman
January 22nd, 2010, 10:39 PM
I'd just tell her in a really harsh way to back off. It might be mean but she'll get the message.

2D
January 22nd, 2010, 11:02 PM
I'd talk to like your guidence counselor or something. In some cases they will ask the child to stop contacting you and if it gets out of hand you can press for a restraining order.

I don't have a guidance counselor, we go to different schools, it just seems impossible. Meh.

I'd just tell her in a really harsh way to back off. It might be mean but she'll get the message.

If you knew the things I called her, man. Any sane person would have left me alone just by the tone of my screams and threats.


In a few days I'm going to snap and make her life a living hell.

Rutherford The Brave
January 22nd, 2010, 11:14 PM
call the cops.

maddii-may
January 23rd, 2010, 03:36 PM
if you ignore her and block her number it will make her more determinted if i were you i would talk to her face to face and explain calmly and be nice

2D
January 23rd, 2010, 03:43 PM
if you ignore her and block her number it will make her more determinted if i were you i would talk to her face to face and explain calmly and be nice

Been there, done that, she just kept trying to hug me and shit. I just want her out of my life, it's not that hard to understand.

Except she's convinced that I still like her. I'm going to fuck her life up if this continues.

The Batman
January 23rd, 2010, 06:32 PM
OP requested :locked: