sex

[josh93]

i dont have a bf but since iam bi when i get a bf how long should it be till we have sex? Iam just curoius about it.

[Giles]

If you have to ask if/when you will be ready then you're not ready.
We can't tell you when you should be able to have sex, that is for you and your partner to decide. Don't do anything unless you are both willing and comfortable.

[josh93]

i was woundering because if the boy that i met and he becomes my bf and haveing sex is what we want to do right away.

[Giles]

You must make sure that both of you are ready for that.
If he isn't then don't press it.

[nick]

i dont have a bf but since iam bi when i get a bf how long should it be till we have sex? Iam just curoius about it.

i was woundering because if the boy that i met and he becomes my bf and haveing sex is what we want to do right away.
Josh, please make some attempt to write in english because its very hard to understand exactly what your question is.

There is no timetable that says x days/weeks/months is the right time at which to have sex. Generally things should be taken slowly and one step at a time.

I you meet someone and want to have sex straight away then the chances are its all about lust and nothing to do with love. Providing you both understand that and are happy with it then fine, that's your choice.

[venom832]

Personally i would wait because i know a lot of people who get too attached too fast. And wouldn't you want it to be special? Like building up a strong connection and bond between you too then having sex? Well personally thats how i am and why i haven't done it yet :D

[Kapitan Kokenbalz]

Josh, please make some attempt to write in english because its very hard to understand exactly what your question is.

There is no timetable that says x days/weeks/months is the right time at which to have sex. Generally things should be taken slowly and one step at a time.

I you meet someone and want to have sex straight away then the chances are its all about lust and nothing to do with love. Providing you both understand that and are happy with it then fine, that's your choice.

Isn't that the case with the vast majority of relationships, anyway? I don't know about you, but if some girl "loved" me from the get-go I'd get out of that ASAP. There's nothing attractive about being delusional or clingy.

[danielleinthesky]

you should wait till you feel comfortable enough with him, and him with you. there's no set date, it all depends on the vibes you're feelin.

[mango2020]

I guess until you guys are absolutley sure your ready!