View Full Version : I really don't know, am I bi?
Carter
January 22nd, 2010, 06:50 AM
I've always had a lot of guys who liked me, but with every boyfriend came a complication [however, i know i still like guys] .... Lately, I've been associating myself with guys and hanging around them as a friend. So like most of my best friends... are dudes. When they have their little "gossip talk about the girls they like" I feel like I can join in. Lately, there's this one girl... who I'm really cool with [we're practically sisters] whom I've been thinking about a lot lately. I really want to get closer to her... I want to try out some things with her. I told her about my bi-curiousness, and she swear we would still be best friends as always... but... that doesn't seem to be enough for me... What should I do? Does that make me bi? Ugh.... the stress is killing me....
Nelson
January 22nd, 2010, 11:35 AM
Hi Carter.
Im the same except the other way around (I talk more with chicks), i like it that way, but i will advise you this, if your really close to this friend of yours, dont do it, im sure many people here would say "it will just ruin your friendship", im saying that, but maybe if she is bi/bi-curious she might be fine with it and maybe it could lead to a relationship
And no this doesnt make you bi, your just showing feelings, i went through the same thing with a really close male friend of mine, we both settled for friends because we both are great as friends :)
Anytime you want to talk, hit me up.
Dylan
Rutherford The Brave
January 22nd, 2010, 11:41 AM
Your just curious, it happens to most teens.
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