16 and I've never kissed

[cool person]

Well, I guess the title says most everying: I'm a 16 year old guy and I've never had a girlfriend nor kissed a girl. I'm just really worried that once I get to college, (i'll be transfering in as a junior at 19) I'll be the only one whos never kissed and al...:(

[2D]

It doesn't matter, man. You don't need to be kissed, and my experience with college, (I'm in college) is that people don't really care. I don't get asked stupid personal questions and all like in highschool since everyone's grown up.

[Mr. Smithers]

There's nothing to be upset about. There is no race to have a first kiss. You will get your first kiss when you find the right person. There is no rush or race.

[Blue63]

I'm 15, 16 in July, and I haven't had my first kiss.

I'm not going to lie, it haunts me sometimes.

But the longer you wait, and the less you rush it, the better it will be. Don't you want it to be with someone you really like, and someone who really likes you? When that moment comes, it will be all worth it.

[Jean Poutine]

Well, I guess the title says most everying: I'm a 16 year old guy and I've never had a girlfriend nor kissed a girl. I'm just really worried that once I get to college, (i'll be transfering in as a junior at 19) I'll be the only one whos never kissed and al...:(

Oh no whatever shall you do?

I'm 19 and never kissed a girl either.

Suck it up, princess.

[Giles]

Same for me. I'm 14 and I've never kissed a guy or a girl, it doesn't bother me much as I've got no real interest - but it can be annoying sometimes.

[zoom zoom]

it doesnt really matter. like really i know guys always want to kiss some girl as fast as possible, but you could say that you are waiting on someone special to lose you lip virginity to that someone. so really i think it will come very soon if you dont put your mind to it so much.

[BlackBetty]

Don't worry about such a silly thing :P! You will eventually have your first kiss just like everyone else.

[jack straw]

Oh no whatever shall you do?

I'm 19 and never kissed a girl either.

Suck it up, princess.

Woww thanks for that encourageing piece of advice... with an attitude like that I wonder why you havent...


it doesnt really matter. like really i know guys always want to kiss some girl as fast as possible, but you could say that you are waiting on someone special to lose you lip virginity to that someone. so really i think it will come very soon if you dont put your mind to it so much.

I think that that is very well said, especially liking the term Lip Virginity lol thats a very good way of saying it. Dont worry dude, your time will come;) lemme just say when it does come, HAVE FUN WITH IT ;)

[Zero Beat]

There is worse things to worry about. It will happen when it happens. :)

[ThatDude93]

I am 16 and I haven't had my first real kiss either. I guess you could say I am waiting for the right one. I just recently got a date to prom....and she is single...but her boyfriend of a few years just broke up with her last month...so I don't wanna rush her into anything....maybe she will end up being my first girlfriend in 4 years....well technically the first real girlfriend....i think the "girlfriend" I had from age 9 to 12 was more like a really good friend......

anyway don't worry bro.....it'll com eventuanlly

[Jean Poutine]

Woww thanks for that encourageing piece of advice... with an attitude like that I wonder why you havent...

You're a dumbass. Why should I encourage him towards a circlejerk of self-pity that serves no purpose?

If he wants to trade germs and saliva so badly, then he just has to do something about it instead of whining on a forum.

You suck it up too, princess.

[cool person]

You're a dumbass. Why should I encourage him towards a circlejerk of self-pity that serves no purpose?

If he wants to trade germs and saliva so badly, then he just has to do something about it instead of whining on a forum.

You suck it up too, princess.

HAHAHA. I must admit it is rather refreshing in a funny way to find someone on these forums (which are rather known for being quite nice and supportive) who is a complete jerk! :lol:

However, seriously,why are you bothering comeing to these forums just to insult people?

[WonderChild]

Your not the only one around here who hasn't kissed a girl, my brother is 15 and still hasn't. And me, well I am only 13, but I almost kissed a girl(darn it ssssssssssoooooooooo close :D).

[Jean Poutine]

HAHAHA. I must admit it is rather refreshing in a funny way to find someone on these forums (which are rather known for being quite nice and supportive) who is a complete jerk! :lol:

However, seriously,why are you bothering comeing to these forums just to insult people?

You're missing the point too. Not very surprising, I suppose.

In due time, you'll realise I was right. Now stop the pity fest, and go do something about your problems instead of whining needlessly and uselessly in front of a computer.

Why are you all being so dense?

[Mental]

Look, rather than just telling you "ohhh it'll be all OK, it'll happen when you find the right girl" etc. I'm going to tell you how it is. If you want things in life, you have to make them happen. There's millions of girls in the world, and each and everyone of them are individual and different, so surely there will be a girl that appreciates you.

However, you have to put your boots in the ground and put yourself out there. A lot of girls love confident guys who will approach and talk to them. Make them laugh. Make them smile. It doesn't matter much if you have Brad Pitt looks (although if you are good-looking, it's a great help).

You don't wait for your destiny, your destiny waits for you. In other words.. you have to make it happen yourself, rather than expect it to magically happen. By the way, I wasn't kissed until I was 16, so you're not exactly Super Weirdo or anything. Don't worry about it. Nobody except idiots think any less of you if you haven't been kissed. If you're worried that some girls won't like a guy that hasn't been kissed before 16, then why the hell would you want their shallow personality anyway?

[KaelKaos]

Uchimata is right, it's nothing life ending.

Stop sitting here and whining about not kissing a girl and go do something about it. A girl just isn't going to come up to you and kiss you, you gotta put some effort into it too.

[Double_Ace]

it's nothing to worry about...a first kiss is supposed to be with someone special...i know alot of people who havent had their first kiss jus relax your time will come

[charlie3322]

wow people are a**holes on here...

[mexa]

well looks like im not alone in the world...im 15 and i havent had my first REAL kiss either...i had one small kiss with a girl but nothing big...i would say dont rush it, as others have said it isnt a race, everything shall happen at the right time.

[teen_vt]

Don't worry. You will find someone eventually if you really want it.

[zoom zoom]

well looks like im not alone in the world...im 15 and i havent had my first REAL kiss either...i had one small kiss with a girl but nothing big...i would say dont rush it, as others have said it isnt a race, everything shall happen at the right time.

at least you think that, and thats good to think. you never want to rush something really special to you.

[javs26]

well when you get a gf and she asks you, you can always say you were waiting for the right girl, that will make her feel special ^_^