is it appropraite?

[Asylum]

how far is it to go and it be appropriate if you love someon and your not married... ? i just need people's opinions on this... i'm still trying to decide my own morals on this and getting the gerneal youth opinion on it will hlpe. thnax

[BlackBetty]

*Excuse me for being a guy posting in a girls fourm*, but it really depends on how far you want to go. And to me, it depends on how much you love the person and if you feel right by doing anything with them.

[LingeringLove]

I think you should save sex for for after marriage, but, I am religous, so this is my Christian opinion xD Anyway, it depends on how far you want to go, as said by 3moons up there ^ ;D

[DoveGreySands]

To me religion always seems to follow the stupidest rules. No sex till after marriage is one of them. If you love someone then you should be intimate with one another, regardless of marital status.

[Rutherford The Brave]

Just be safe, and have some damn sex. Your a teen have some freakin fun don't let stupid religion make your decisions.

[Aspiringanonymous]

Listen to your intuition - it knows best.

[haibekah]

the thing with sex though, is if you're not ready to accept the concequences of it, then don't do it. yeah i know, safe sex is all the rage these days, but it doesn't always work. condoms break and birth control pills don't always do their job. i am a prime example of not being ready for the concequenses of sex. by the time i'm 18 i'll have a nine month old daughter. you have to think about what you're getting yourself into. i didn't. lmfao. i'm not saying that i don't love my daughter. it's just i totally wasn't ready.

[Mental]

how far is it to go and it be appropriate if you love someon and your not married... ? i just need people's opinions on this... i'm still trying to decide my own morals on this and getting the gerneal youth opinion on it will hlpe. thnax
Really.. it's up to you/the person concerned.

Are you religious or do you have any strict beliefs on this kind of thing that suggests you should wait until marriage before you have sex? Then maybe that.

If you're old enough (my opinion is 16+) to have sex, and your relationship with the boy is strong, steady and you've been together at least 2-3 months, and you are confident (free from pressure - never let a lad bully you into anything you don't want to do or feel right with) and such, then it's completely OK.

I do not promote pre-marital sex, but I don't condemn it either, as people have their own opinions.

[Englishrose]

I am afraid this is one of those things where you can't really get advice on, it's a personal choice as its about your morals and values. Its about you.

However, I have found through personal experience that things change when you are in a relationship, and it is most likely a better time to make this decision and you are usually better informed of what the relationship is going to be like since every relationship is different and your going to have different thoughts.

If you want my personal opinion, I've never been a big fan of no sex before marriage, but that is mainly because I'm not huge on marriage, I think of it as a piece of paper and it doesn't change a relationship in the slightest, but that is personal opinion. Therefore, my solution is sex only while I'm in a long-term relationship. However, me and my current boyfriend had sex quite soon into our relationship, much sooner than I have in previous relationships, but the relationship is completely different to previous relationships.

Your just going to have to use your judgement and trust yourself more than anyone else.

[Jenna.]

Well I'm Christian but I don't really follow the whole "wait until marriage" thing...I've been with my current boyfriend for 14 months today and we have sex but I don't think there's anything wrong with that. I love him, he loves me..we've been together for a while, we're planning on staying together, so I don't think it's that bad. I think it's ok in long relationships or if you guys have been together for a while (or are planning to) but if it's been like 3 months, no. Or if you jump around from guy to guy so to speak, then no it's not right. Sure people will still do it regardless but that doesn't mean everyone's going to agree with how they're behaving.

[xluvlyx]

It depends on your religion, for me i would wait about 10 years to get married so i know i will always love them. I would go all the way and let whatever happens and happen as in my opinion its just human nature. I guess it would be really special to leave sex til after marriage but to be honest i'd get too impatient lol x

[cody2010]

i was raised to believe that premarrital sex (any type of sex) is wrong. but that's just my opinion. everyone's different.

[Dechris182]

To me religion always seems to follow the stupidest rules. No sex till after marriage is one of them. If you love someone then you should be intimate with one another, regardless of marital status.

Agree!

[thrust of trust]

Just be safe, and have some damn sex. Your a teen have some freakin fun don't let stupid religion make your decisions.

damn straight.

[Giles]

Personally I don't think marriage has any affect on sexual relations.
I would do anything and everything before marriage, as it means nothing to me.

[StraightAcE]

yea it all depends like what 3moon said

[mango2020]

well it' s 2010 so anything goes LOL! but seriously only if you feel really ready to do whatever your going to do.

[skyekirstyn]

it depends on oyu.
me, personally have no problem with having pre-marital sex.

[XxSarahxX]

However far you and partner feel is "right" - there is no right and wrong for personally how far to go xox

[Obscene Eyedeas]

Please do not bump old threads :locked: