Unwanted thoughts...

[Hewhohasnoriches]

I'm not sure if this should be here, or the Mental Crisis page, but here it goes.

Okay, so there are times during masturbation where I start off thinking about a girl or something erotic with a girl, and then, out of nowhere, I have random thoughts of guys.

Not even of "dream" guys, of people that I've seen or know, and they seem to flash in my mind at times while I'm jacking off.

This really messes up how I think about those people, for instance one time I was watching porn while jacking off and I had this random flash of one of my favorite musicians. Now I find myself assuming that I have some sexual feeling towards him, and it really makes it hard to like his music now. There have been a few people who are different in my eyes now that I've done it...

How would I get over something like this. How do I get over not only the intrusive thoughts during the session, but also change what I think about those people? Or rather, remove the idea of a sexual arousal for that person?

I don't believe that I have a sexual arousal to guys, and I get attracted by girls more often. Maybe I just worry about the thoughts too much.

And NO, I'm not a homophobe.

[sam i am]

*MOve to sexuality* and dude thats ok! i used to have those when jacking off and i get pictures of my old principal,etc who isn't attractive lol.At times it used to bother me but when i got the motive to think it won't happen again it didn't happen! just think positive! It's ur mind u can control it! Don't let those images while jacking off change the way u feel about those people.Only if u want it to. U maybe curious,etc but for now be u, do what u feel right.

[BlackBetty]

It is not that you are gay. It's just that you are a male teenage boy and your hormones are crazy. It's called being curious. And it's OK.

[Mental]

Some erotic thoughts may get boring.. the thought of banging some hot blond in a ferrari will only turn you on for so long, so you try to spice it up a bit by thinking of things that are forbidden or.. different. It doesn't mean you really mean it, it's just exciting to think differently.

You're not the worst. I've heard of guys who fantasise (accidentally or intentionally) about raping someone or getting a girl pregnant.. they don't act on it, it's just their mind being curious. Just as long as such thoughts don't play out.

[Bard95]

It's called curiosity. I wanna say at least 90% of all guys in there teens do this. Iv'e done it. As of getting the thoughts out of your head, idk srry cant help ya with that problem.

[SKellD]

its just regular teen curiosity. being horny while youre a teen can make you think of anything

[Giles]

One word.
Curiosity.
It doesn't make you gay because you like to fantasize about guys or girls.

[Carfreakjack]

many straight guys wank off to guys no problem

[Ballin2much]

theres ppl i know closely tht i think about a lot....

[CaptainObvious]

many straight guys wank off to guys no problem

...no, insofar as "wank off to" implies sexual attraction, straight guys do not. Many guys who are at least somewhat bisexual but call themselves straight, however, do.

[StraightAcE]

yea your curious probabaly