What should i do?

[hockey08]

I've been going out with this girl for 2 years and she dumped me yesterday for another guy. I kinda knew it was coming cause she was talking to him a lot. I was gonna dump her cause i knew she had her mind on other guys but she dumped me be4. anyways now my chest is always heavy and i cant really concentrate or stop thinking about her and how beautiful she is and what we had. Im 14 and this is my first serious relationship and Ive never been dumped be4. the dude was not really my friend but not my enemy either and now he talks to me like nothing happened.And the worst of all is the guy is a complete asshole and i know it.hes kind of a show off and i dont think he really respects women. shes not going out with him but she likes him and he likes her. we had a talk and she said she didnt want it to end this way and that she wanted to be friends and i agreed but i just cant get over her...

sorry for the paragraph but im really bummed out...im NOT having suicidal thoughts or anything but people noticed that i look stressed or sad or tired.

any advice?:(

[2D]

It will take time, but all wounds heal. Just do other stuff to get your mind off her.

[hockey08]

i cant we have all the same courses toghether and the other guy has 2 courses with us and seeing them 2gether hurts me cause i remember it used to be me n her

[2D]

I mean do other stuff not at school, keep your mind busy all the time, focus in class too.

Like I said, everything takes time to heal, but it will.

[ILOVEYOU]

dont give a shit, see who's really worth thinking about 24/7, dont waste your time, i've wasted mine, so thats what i've learnt through years

[Mr. Smithers]

Just move on. You are so young, you are going to meet another girl, just keep her out of the picture.

[ErykaInspire.]

If you think about it.. you were going to break up with HER. Perhaps there's a reason you two didn't work out. You're both really young and not mature enough to have a relationship that'd last forever.
You deserve someone that's worth hurting over, and if she's just going to move on to the next guy, then hun.. she's not worth it. Keep your head up.
Go out with friends, try to concentrate on your school work. I know how a breakup feels, but you can't let it control your life.
Message me if you need to talk. If not, move on. You'll be okay(:

[jack straw]

Please dude, take it from a guy who spent two years in a really depressed shell of a life because of a breakup. ITS NOT WORTH IT. I know its really hard, but please, let go. others had really good advice here, that you need to keep yourself busy to take your mind off her. Excersices, take up a hobby, do something. when I was finally getting over my depressed obsession everytime I started to go back I would do 20 situps and 20 pushups. It took my mind off her, and I started doing something productive. Friends at this stage are gonna be realllyyyy hard. The girl that caused my problems would always talk to me about her new relationships, how she has now gone out with all my friends and gone alot farther with all of them then me, and she would basically BRAG about it to me and rub it in. I was dying on the inside. Ignore her, find another girl. PLEASE dont keep thinking of her. If she has left you for sombody like that she definatley doesnt deserve a guy like you, and your thoughts should be directed to either people who care, or school. best advice I could give right now, Find a hobby you can do whenever you start to feel sad again. It will take your mind off her.


If you need to talk, either PM me or we can talk through AIM : FlyingHigh5599
Ill always be there if ya need to talk ;)

[hockey08]

thanks for the advice guys n girls im better now i had a talk with her and im okay with just staying friends. now im single and i can do whatever tf i want :D and yeh now that im single and i havent been on the market for 2 years a bunch of girls start to talk to me again hehe anyways thanks and thread closed..