View Full Version : How Curious Can you get
unidanman
January 19th, 2010, 05:22 AM
How Curious Can you get before you should be considered bisexual???
Like i personally am extremely curious but honestly would never go into a proper relationship with the person
Mr. Smithers
January 19th, 2010, 05:44 AM
Then you are not bi-sexual. Bi-sexual is loving both sexes completely.
Plateau
January 19th, 2010, 08:26 AM
"Every bisexual builds one's bisexual identity by oneself and therefore general definition of bisexuality cannot exist."
Giles
January 19th, 2010, 02:29 PM
I believe that there are different 'levels' of bisexual.
Some bi guys I know love girls way more than guys, but they would never have sex with a girl. They like the females for the emotional side and the guys for the sexual side.
CaptainObvious
January 19th, 2010, 02:44 PM
I think the vast majority of people who call themselves "curious" these days are really bisexual. The whole "can you see yourself in a relationship with the same gender" strikes me as a stupid question to ask because many people have difficulty imagining that at all because of the gender roles they've had ingrained into them.
The more relevant question is "to what gender(s) are you sexually attracted?" If the answer is "both" to some extent, you're probably bisexual. That can certainly change as hormones calm down, though mostly, I tend to think that's not because of a chang in which gender one is attracted to, but rather in the pure amount of attraction generally: as sex drive decreases the gender one favors comes to dominate. I think "curious" is generally another word for "bisexual".
StraightAcE
January 19th, 2010, 09:04 PM
reading this post i realised im straight
cherry_boi
January 19th, 2010, 09:45 PM
"Every bisexual builds one's bisexual identity by oneself and therefore general definition of bisexuality cannot exist."
lol what? that is very poorly worded.....
and to the threads starter's question, i agree with ben and some others....i think there are different "levels" of bisexuality, i think the majority of people are at least slightly attracted to the same
but i think that it's becomes less of a curiosity thing if there is continued sexual interaction with the same sex, and/or if there are romantic feelings towards a member of the same sex
unidanman
January 20th, 2010, 12:06 AM
Some bi guys I know love girls way more than guys, but they would never have sex with a girl. They like the females for the emotional side and the guys for the sexual side.
Yea Ben, The Grey text sorta describes me. But as some people know on this site my one friend is a friend who has way more interesting people to talk with. So 99% of the time i am left on my own... No chance to have a social life, have fun or experiment with guys/girls.
CaptainObvious
January 20th, 2010, 12:16 AM
Yea Ben, The Grey text sorta describes me. But as some people know on this site my one friend is a friend who has way more interesting people to talk with. So 99% of the time i am left on my own... No chance to have a social life, have fun or experiment with guys/girls.
Time to find some more friends, then. Be outgoing and social and fun, you'll be surprised how fast people want to spend time with you.
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