What Do Now?

[Sugaree]

So, there's this girl I know right? Very sweet, compassionate, all that goody good stuff. Well, during my youth group's meet up this past Sunday, she just came out of no where and pretty my hug tackled me (Go "AWWWWWWWWWW!" all you want you romance less bastards :P). Anyway, she just wouldn't stop following me. She talked to me a lot, and I the same. She pretty much just wanted to be around me. Now, we've been friends, but never before has she done this. She was flirting around with me, staring at me, smiling, moving her hand toward mine.

Question, what do I do? I mean, I don't want to RUSH into anything, but I don't want to hold back either. I'm so confused on this and I really don't want to talk to my parents about it since I've done it before and that didn't turn out so great. Any help?

[2D]

1. Well I mean, you could just straight up ask her out of you fancy that.

2. Flirt back, see what happens.

3 Do nothing. Booooring.

I would pick 1 or 2, 2 if you don't want to rush into things, like you said y'know.

[Sugaree]

Hmm, I suppose you are right. I mean, I don't want to just go into it full force because that would probably draw her away. Option two might be best.

[Mr. Smithers]

Tell her that you have no problem with her liking you, but tell her that she's going to fast. Tell her that you are not ready to be at that stage with her.

[Sugaree]

Tell her that you have no problem with her liking you, but tell her that she's going to fast. Tell her that you are not ready to be at that stage with her.

She's not going fast. It just took me by surprise is all, considering she's never done this to me. I mean, we've always been very good friends. The flirting is new.

[Englishrose]

It sounds like she is taking an interest in you, realised her attraction towards you. If you have those attractions back, flirt with her, don't rush into it and ask her out, you need to have that transition period between being friends and being boyfriend/girlfriend. So, just flirt with her, have some fun, instead of letting her make the first move, you do.

However, if you don't have those feelings back off, subtly. Remain firmly in that friend zone, treat her exactly the same as you've previously done.

I'm afraid this is one of those situations where you have to use your own judgement.

[jack straw]

Yea, this can be a tough situation. First time I was in this situation, I had a case of Young Lust an I screwd it up pretty badly if ya know what I mean:P lol
I would suggest playful flirting, see where it goes, and if ya feel good ask her out. go see a movie, a romantic stroll through a park, just see what shes into and ask her ;) Good luck dude ;)

[Sugaree]

Yea, this can be a tough situation. First time I was in this situation, I had a case of Young Lust an I screwd it up pretty badly if ya know what I mean:P

I don't need no dirty woman yet...not until a future partner decides to jump ship at least :P

Thanks for the advice everyone. I think I'm more confident about this now than I was when I first started the thread. Thanks again! :bye:

[ErykaInspire.]

Me being a girl and all, it really sounds like she likes you.
It'd be best for the both of you if you got to know each other a lot better.
I definitely don't recommend rushing into it by asking her out.
Maybe ask her to hang out with you outside of school a few times, get some 1on1 time.
If it goes well, then go for it(:
Best of luck.
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